Ok, well I came with my boyfriend to his hometown to supposedly take care of his brothers girlfriend who is pregnant. This was only suppose to be a 2 to 3 week stay but now, my boyfriends brothers is trying to get him to stay. Our plans have been to come back in the future and make a family here but this is way to soon to my surprise. I asked him while we were in Cali if he was planing on staying and if so to please tell me so that I could just stay over there. He promised it eas only for a few weeks but now he is saying that it’s for the best of both. This makes me extremely sad and betrayed because I have my family over there. So now I’m crushed because he said that he is staying no matter what I say. He said there is niching in California for him and I should stay and leave everything over in Cali for now. I’m so crushed because I love him but I love my family as well. I feel payed by him because now ihave to fly all by myself back home.What would u do? Please help.