What is it with guys who compliment you, say you’re gorgeous, say they think you’re an amazing person – but don’t want to be romantically affiliated with you? I’ve liked a guy for a while and we’re good friends, we flirt a lot but it’s like I’m just sort of a fun thing for him. No, we’re not friends with benefits at all…
I seem to have trouble attracting a guy who truly wants to be with me. There have been many guys who have either tried to look for more with me (I always turn those down, I’m not easy) or have said they think I’m amazing or beautiful, but none ask me out.
This trend is worrying me – like I’m impossible to love. Can any one help me out? (And please don’t say I must be easy because I’m not. I’m actually a virgin – anytime I’ve been near having sex has been too early in a relationship (ie one night stands) and I’m not down with that.
Does anyone know what the issue is?! Am I just one of those unlucky-in-love types? People may suggest it’s something to do with me, but doesn’t anyone have faults? Even the most horrible person I know can seem to get dates.
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They Flirt With Me, But Never Ask Me Out?
Posted on March 5, 2011.
No, you’re not one of those unlucky types.
Here are possible reasons:
1. You’re meeting the wrong guys. They just want to flirt or get into your pants but not getting seriously romantic with you.
2. You’re too picky and missing those guys who are genuinely trying to be in a relationship with you. You overlook them consciously or sub-consciously.
3. You’re not doing enough to let guys know that they can ask you out for a serious date. You don’t give off “buying signals” to these guys.
4. Even the most horrible people get dates because they make themselves available, are not too picky, and know how to give “green light” signals to those they are interested in.
I hope this helps and good luck!
Maybe you just really intimidate men. There is no such thing as unlucky in love! I think some women just put it out there more. I know what you mean though the exact same thing happens to me, but I just think maybe I am not open enough.
Allot of the tie males are worried and if they don’t get a clear enough response when they throw their bait sorry for the wording, they think your not interested and don’t ask, now im not saying you should throw yourself at guys. can you answer my question is sort of similar my display name is blacrek.