well my ex boyfriend are talking about being together again but he does not like my best friend(which is a guy) at all and he told me if im going to be talking him not to talk to my best friend..so i told him okay well then don’t talk to girls at all and he got mad and he said do i want to be affiliated with him that badly…and i told him if he does not want me to do something he shouldn’t either and all he put is wow ok…am i being dumb about this? or who’s wrong?
He sounds like someone you could do without. He is controlling and expects you to give up people you care about while he does whatever he wants. I can guarantee you that his hypocrisy does not end with that one issue but you will be dealing with it over all kinds of things. Seriously is this how you want to spend your time? There are plenty of mature caring fair guys out there. Give them a chance and leave this dipwad behind. The only thing you are being dumb about is even considering getting back with him. I hope you are smarter than that.
Nope, you were right. What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander, they say. In a relationship, there has to be trust or it won’t work. Good luck.