This is pure friendship between two friends, don’t mis understand anything. I just want to know or guess about what really happened.
I made friend with someone I have a lot in common with.
– friendly
– sensitive
– shy
– smart
– quick thinker
– independent
– caring
– have a traditional family
– influence in chinese
– have strict parents
– he doesn’t get along with his dad while I’m not with my mom and for almost the same reason.
– like the same type of music and movies
– share secrets like masturbate and other personal things (most asian doesn’t do that.)
and a lot more…
Everything was fine for the past 2years, but it all changed when he begun to making new friends.
His new is fine, except that they sort of his followers which I’m not. My friend is better than me in Math, Physic, Chemistry but not because he smarter, it’s just he more determinate to study than me,and I’m lazy. that’s why when he calls every friend to open a study club, I decided not to go.
– I don’t like his friends.
– Even without his tutoring, I’m doing just fine with school work.
That’s when he begun to get really close to them. I don’t really mind though, he’s not my girlfriend, he’s not my boyfriend, there’s no reason that he can’t hang out with other people and I told him that in person.
I never really know really happened, all I know is that I hate his friends more and more because, they know that I’m very close to him, so in front of him, they treat me like a long time best friend, they just talk to me without making sense but when he’s not around, his friends are barely talk to me even when I ask them something, the way they look at me is like I’m some sort of a loser which I don’t understand because, I’m as rich as my best friend and we both richer than anyone in our class, maybe even in our whole school, and I’m good looking, smarter than any of them.
One day, I when to the suppermarket and saw my best friend hang out with his new friends, he saw me, which I saw him too. So I hurried home right away, I was angried at him, that’s because a moment ago, I called to ask him to goes with me to buy some new Movies but he said that he sick and had to stay at home but instead he went to the same market with his friend cohort. About 20 minutes later, he called, I know that he knows that I was angry, what he was talking on the phone doesn’t make any sense, it was school, it was this, that… i can’t really understand any of it but I know it’s because he know he did wrong and had nothing to say, he just saying other things, maybe he was just trying to detect if I was angry at him or not. Ever since then, I sort of distance myself from him, he called, I don’t pick up, sometime I do if I was close to the phone, but I never called back if there were his miscalled, I just told him that my phone is out of money. At school, the table, is for 2 person but can be use for 3, I sat with him and his other best friend from childhood, but lucky or not, someone was transfer to other class, I went to sit in that table, using an excuse as the table was empty. He realize that i was really angry at him and without knowing what to do, he called my dad and have my dad call to me to talk for him. I was really surprised at the time, he never know my dad, and he dare to call, wonder where he got my dad’s number? After than everything was fine again, that’s also when he knows that I really hate his friends.
Later, he had to goes to America to study, he throwing a going away party without invite me, when I found out, I kind of really stay far from him more by write an e-mail to him;
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He didn’t reply back, but e-mail that he had returned for a short visit and want to meet me, I said no to him. Now he comes back again for his birthday celebration, I ask who he was celebrated with, he said, it only his family members but before that, I called his brother and ask about this too and he said, he celebrated it with him and his other 3 best friend at home, so my friend lied to me again. But this time, he will visit me, and as speaking of it, it is tomorrow.
So what do you think? how should i behave? what should I do? What should I talk about?
Should I see him off this time??? Because of what