My impression of her from facebook and skype over the summer from our university class facebook group, was that she was some nice, innocent girl but also very naive and not that street smart.
What i didnt know, was how much of a mean, vicious girl she really is.
Beginning of this school year, Taylor, Kyle and I were best friends.Taylor lived on the main campus, but Kyle and I lived downtown in university affiliated housing that barely anyone from my college lived in. So Kyle and I saw eachother way way way more than Taylor, especially since we lived across the hall from eachother. But Kyle and I got closer and closer until we started being physical and nearly had sex and stuff. I had real feelings for him and he said he did too. But we got into an argument and broke up. (it wasnt even face to face either….its complicated) after the breakup i spent a lot of time with Taylor
Ten days after the breakup (when he had no contact with talyor for like 2 weeks because he was never really thattt close with her), Kyle invites himself over to Taylor’s dorm….at 1 am….so he takes the subway like 25 minutes to go to her dorm. Taylor messages me saying “Kyle’s coming over” and of course, she doesnt say “no” when he invites himself. And he stays the night. He slept on the floor but still…taylor texted me in the morning saying “he stayed the night. lmao” i was so pissed off.
Then Taylor and kyle become close friends and hang out all the time… (Taylor liked him. i knew she liked him from the start even when he and i had our thing)
I started being close to Taylor’s roommate Maria, but she would be like “faq off. shes MY friend!” to Maria. Taylor was VERY possesive of friends. She would say all these mean things about Maria to everyone. It was awful…
Taylor then told me on facebook chat that our friendship was over. She accused me of being a bad friend for choosing Maria over her. I never did this…i tried being friends with both. But she just called the friendship off.
Taylor and her friend Kayla made a list of the reasons they love and hate Kyle. Number one on their list of hate was “cuz he hooked up with Melissa…ewwww” and then a girl walks into the room and goes “hooked up with who?” and Kayla goes “some slut” so apparently they think of me as a slut….when all i did was make out with Kyle…a lot of times!! I never even touched his penis or anything. I always kept my clothes on too! whatever….they are crazy….
number two on the hate list was “cuz he gives everyone mono” (i had thought Kyle might have given me mono,because i had some symptoms, so i had asked him via text about it, but he got very very angry. he complained to Taylor and Kayla about it and said i “accused” him of mono)
Maria would tell me, literally everytime I went to go see her, about how all Kyle, Kayla and Taylor talk about is me. Maria said they would make jokes about how i probably “followed” kyle. She would tell me every single thing she heard them say about me. She was like “yeah, Kyle’s not a fan”.
Its just really not nice at all that they acted this way. I had real feelings for Kyle before, and we had some issues together that we between US. not the whole world. It was not Taylor’s place to keep bringing up stuff about us…When Kyle and i were a thing, we kept it secret. but i told taylor and another friend because i needed to tell someone about us. I told taylor not to tell anyone. But of course, once Kyle and i broke up, she told the whole world about how we hooked up….some friend….
Also, she told everyone that I was going to transfer out and go back to san francisco (where i am from), all beause of her. Yes, i was thinking of transferring out, but it wasnt cuz of her. Maria said she was telling everyone this and saying how she hoped i would transfer…
Once Maria and Eva became friends with Taylor again, and even Kyle, they stopped talking to me. I havent heard from them in nearly two months, and havent seen them in almost three. (and that was for dinner one night in the student center for a half hour)
Taylor apologized like two weeks ago on skype (a kid we were friends with over the summer told her recently to just apologize) saying “hey look, can we start over?” and saying how i was one of the people she regretted losing as a friend. she said she kinda backed off before, because she thought i wasnt her biggest fan. I told her i forgave her and stuff. But we hadnt talked originally since early october..
I havent heard from her in almost two weeks tho….so i dont think she is rushing to being my friend anyway….
But…should i even trust her?