I am really feeling insecure every time i see my friends’ post in facebook. I see them very happy with their friends, their life, winning the school pageant, joining at games and everything. I am really insecure because i dont have that much friends, I really wanted to join the pageant but i have a lot of scars so i cant, i used olive oil but its still there. I have a boyfriend and all i do is hurt him, he loves me so much. I also hurt my father and i dont show my love to him, I just have this high pride and i dont know what to do, I am doing well at school but its just i havent found my niche, i havent found where do i really belong, i dont love my course but i dont wanna shift courses because im already on my third year.. i just have this insecurities about having few friends,not popular and i feel like a waste of space in this world…. i need help seriously
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I Am Feeling So Insecure And Worthless… Can Someone Give Me An Advice?
Posted on September 23, 2012.
It sounds to me like you just need something you enjoy. Something challenging perhaps? Or a new set of things to do, maybe your just bored of what you have and where you are. Feel like starting new somewhere else? Feel like you don’t belong in a specific place? It’s hard to find genuine friends these days.
Every morning, look in the mirror and say
“Damn, look at this hot devil lookin back at me! Oh that is me? you my friend are just absolutely stunning…I mean I know you are what you eat, but I sure don’t remember eating a sex god today!? Well guess I’ll go get a husband cause I’m so hot and cool..”
That’s what I do and it works.
If you don’t like something about your life, seriously, change it. That’s the only thing you can do to become fulfilled with life, rather than just learning to love what you already have.
If FaceBook is making you feel bad, stop looking at it. If you keep doing something which you think is the cause of your misery, then you should really quit it. Otherwise, you’re just the cause of your own misery.
If you love your boyfriend and father, show them that you love them. You can’t just complain about not showing love and not even attempt. A simple hug or “I love you” can do wonders, trust me. You can keep pride and love others.
At least you’re doing well in school. So what if you haven’t found your niche? You’re still young. The only way that you can find it is by trying new things and sticking to it. I think that people can only not have a talent when they don’t bother to find it, or have found it but don’t work on it.
If you feel like you’re worthless, that’s okay. If you think about it, everyone is worthless. Which means that nobody is. That probably didn’t make sense, but people are people. Everyone is here, which means that they have been given their fair attempt at life.
What helps me to keep my confidence is to look at my positive qualities and compliment myself about it. I’m pretty smart, so it helps me to tell myself that I am. I also have some nice physical features as well. So what if you have scars? There is something that is beautiful about you, but remember. Only you can make yourself feel beautiful.
Lastly, looking at your accomplishments in life can really help you feel better.
If all else fails, please see a professional about this.
I hope that this was the answer you were looking for!
we are in the same position right now. im also feel insecure and worthless. and i am also 3rd year now but still don’t feel what am i lookin for coz i really don’t like my course. and i am sort of anti social i have friends but they’re like 4 or 5, that sometime i feel completely alone coz there’s nothing something special happening in my life. but the secret why i still standing is because of God, I always pray to Him everything i wanted to share to anyone but no one seems to be interested. Prayers really help me to look for the positive side of life even if alot of negative thing happening around me. Im sure your problem is nothing to do with psychological matters, coz I feel that too. We’re really sharing the same situation and please i want you to follow me on twitter and i will follow you back. @eiroc_motmot :))