Hello. Well I have this secret crush who’s in his 40’s, maybe late 50’s and I want to get his attention and out of the friend zone. We first met at the bus stop, and my baby girl was with me. He just walked up and started smoking a cigarette and me always being the conversation starter, I started talking to him first. He’s very nice, laid back husband material, helps me with my bags, and even saids hi when he sees me afar off. We always seem to see eachother by or in the bus, and in the market he works at. I’m 25 and he’s never seen me dressed up like a lady before. He’s mostly seen me in sweats and hoodies, but he was still so nice. My question is, how do I get his attention and get out of the friend zone? I have a 40DD bust and I don’t want to wear something that will give off the wrong signal, and I don’t want anything that will make me look fat. What can I wear that saids I’m not a slut but I’m not a virgin either? Thanks.
it does not matter what you wear —- lose this thing with being in the “friend zone” as children imagine it —- it does not exist — mature people KNOW that you cant make someone like you and if the spark is not there nothing can make it happen —- if you want to find out if he is interested in you romantically (just because he has done nothing means nothing) —- ask him out for a coffee — with all the weird attitudes around even if he is interested he has no reason to ask you out —- so take the initiative and have fun