Before You Meet
Here are 10 things to look for and access before you meet your potential mate:
Whenever you have a target goal you must always assess the situation. Assessing the situation means researching your target, analyzing their actions, and become instinctive about their personality. By doing so, you become more aware on how to market yourself when executing your mission plan to date her.
Check if she has a ring on her wedding finger.
If not, does she have a tan line on her wedding finger?
Do you have eye contact with her occasionally?
What kind of personality does she emanate? (shy, talkative, flirtatious, confident)
Notice what reading material she reads.
Estimate her time of arrival and departure at the gym.
Observe how she interacts with other men at the gym.
See if she’s a beginner, average or an intermediate worker outer.
Pick up on her patterns: what she drinks, how she trains, who she talks to.
Get a ‘vibe’ from her. A vibe is an invisible message to you that she likes you.
Opportunities To Talk
Here are 10 opportunities to talk to her:
Getting noticed will be fairly easy if you are confident, fit and extroverted. There are key moments when you are able to actually converse with someone at the gym. These moments are called “market windows” at the gym (I just made that up).
Approach her to assist when she is struggling to adjust a weight (especially leg extension machines!)
When she is done with the squat or bench press, act like you are using it next and help take off her plates. That will spark conversation!
Stretch in the group exercise room when she is in there performing lunges, core work or stretching.
Watch out in case she drops anything on the ground so you can retrieve it for her.
Train cardio close (but not next to) the machine beside her.
Buy her a post-workout smoothie (But be incognito about it. Let her wonder who her secret admirer is)
Accidently start training on her machine when she is getting water
Say something to her if you notice her absence (if she is sick or travelling)
Initiate conversation during rest times and ask her about a local event.
Be real and tell her she’s beautiful and that you’d like to take her out sometime
how do girls want to be approached at the gym? They Don’t Want to be approached at all … They are there to work out like you. They don’t go to the gym to get hit on.
Before You Meet
Here are 10 things to look for and access before you meet your potential mate:
Whenever you have a target goal you must always assess the situation. Assessing the situation means researching your target, analyzing their actions, and become instinctive about their personality. By doing so, you become more aware on how to market yourself when executing your mission plan to date her.
Check if she has a ring on her wedding finger.
If not, does she have a tan line on her wedding finger?
Do you have eye contact with her occasionally?
What kind of personality does she emanate? (shy, talkative, flirtatious, confident)
Notice what reading material she reads.
Estimate her time of arrival and departure at the gym.
Observe how she interacts with other men at the gym.
See if she’s a beginner, average or an intermediate worker outer.
Pick up on her patterns: what she drinks, how she trains, who she talks to.
Get a ‘vibe’ from her. A vibe is an invisible message to you that she likes you.
Opportunities To Talk
Here are 10 opportunities to talk to her:
Getting noticed will be fairly easy if you are confident, fit and extroverted. There are key moments when you are able to actually converse with someone at the gym. These moments are called “market windows” at the gym (I just made that up).
Approach her to assist when she is struggling to adjust a weight (especially leg extension machines!)
When she is done with the squat or bench press, act like you are using it next and help take off her plates. That will spark conversation!
Stretch in the group exercise room when she is in there performing lunges, core work or stretching.
Watch out in case she drops anything on the ground so you can retrieve it for her.
Train cardio close (but not next to) the machine beside her.
Buy her a post-workout smoothie (But be incognito about it. Let her wonder who her secret admirer is)
Accidently start training on her machine when she is getting water
Say something to her if you notice her absence (if she is sick or travelling)
Initiate conversation during rest times and ask her about a local event.
Be real and tell her she’s beautiful and that you’d like to take her out sometime
how do girls want to be approached at the gym? They Don’t Want to be approached at all … They are there to work out like you. They don’t go to the gym to get hit on.