Affiliate Marketing Secrets

I started my blog about a month ago and during the last few weeks I actually went on different forums in my niche, wrote articles and everything to get my blog out there, but still each time I go on Alexa or Google Webmasters I cannot see what websites are linking to me or any other traffic information besides my ranking from Alexa which is like 7million… Can someone help me?
I am a dancer, I don’t know much about online things, writing the blog is hard enough.

where can i buy advertising to get quality traffic from Canada and united state?
i have try many different advertising in my days but seams harder get Quality traffic leads from this country most i got was cheaters use proxy, bots etc
my sites have an high alexa rank and traffic but
most my good members is from poor countries…
but as affiliate most paying offer is for user in united state

I have a blog I been working very hard on for about three years. It has good Alexa and Google rankings. In Google’s search results however, it is buried if you search for it’s niche related keywords. On the first page of listings for these keywords there are sites that have few posts, haven’t been updated for months and have bad Alexa and Google ratings/ rankings.
Any ideas about why this is?