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hi, I am a 18 year old boy who happens to be into bondage. for about 4 years now bondage has been in my life I stumbled upon it one night when I was browsing the web. back to my question, I am looking for that special someone who I will hopefully spend the rest of my life with. the reason the bondage part comes into it is because its a lifestyle and a very niche and secretive one at that. so how would I go about meeting people who are into bondage? the girlfriend bit will come later on. also are there any tips for a newbie like me.