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Advice For East Indian Male On Dating A Particular Group Of White Females?


Hey folks!! – some suggestions/advice PLEASE
Here’s the deal, I’m a regular guy currently busy with academics at graduate school but wish to enter the dating game soon. Purely taking the following details at FACE VALUE, may I kindly get some suggestions/advice on approaching white females?
I am fully aware that any female race has a myriad of different personalities, looks, views etc and hence am careful to “target” only an “ecological niche”. I admire Indian females a lot and have been very good at socializing with them and am moderately successful at a platonic level. However, ever since I came to America at 18 (I’m from Singapore), I have realized that most of the Indian females here in America are not “my type” (maybe because I have not met enough Indian females as well). ANYWAY, nevertheless – I find myself inextricably ATTRACTED to most white American females – physically and at an intellectual level. I really am seeking a partner to share a journey based on very basic needs and moderately “out of the norm” interests. I am spiritual (but non-religious; atheistic when it comes to an anthropomorphized God), a lacto-ovo vegetarian, many have said that I have – a really good sense of humor, moderate to decent looks (perhaps 6.5-7.5 on 10; ~5’10” in height), lots of confidence and I’m also quite personable and engaging when it comes to conversations. I LOVE talking about various topics like metaphysics, comics, popular culture etc (anything!) for long hours. I find many white american females here have wonderful personalities (at least at face value) and speak with conviction/hold onto conversations long (which is good) and was wondering if it would be possible to meet white females with SIMILAR interests (where? how?).
I do not exude the image of Raj (selective mutism) from The Big Bang Theory so don’t worry lol 🙂 I am not a FOB and have managed to develop a clean american accent that does not contain one bit of affectation. I realize that I am only moderately to my Indian side – other than my love for Indian food and some concepts of Hinduism (like Karma and recinarnation), I am quite universal in my stance. I have very eclectic interests drawing a lot from the West – Rock, metal music, hollywood etc. However, I am not too much into American sports (football sometimes only) but am insane about tennis, soccer, cricket etc.
I know some (FEW only like in any race) Indian men are infamous for seeking white females purely for sexual pursuits but I have other things in mind that attract me about the white females. I’ll be lying if I said that I don’t find white females the hottest and most beautiful females. They are second to none! Indian females can be very beautiful as well but quite honestly they have been far and few between during my time here in America (maybe because I’m in an engineering college). Anyway, I am not interested in the stereotypical hot sorority white girl who is easy in bed. My urge for an intellectual connection and personality match is greater. I have a lot of respect for females and am not chauvinistic. In fact, I put females on a pedestal and am very good listener.
I’ve not dated for 4-5 years already (hence, I lack dating experience). The last time I was in a relationship was when I was 17 with a pretty Indian girl but we broke up because I “overdid stuff” (like getting her too many gifts and going too fast lol). That’s what she said! I wanted to get done with my academics in engineering without any “distractions” or excess baggage, and have been successful in graduating from a top engineering school in 3.5 years while being single throughout lol.
Within a year I shall be graduating with my Master’s degree and wish to date females (mostly Indians and whites) because quite frankly I’ve been very lonely and always wanted someone to connect with. However, I really would like to seek a white girlfriend just to understand how we would hit it off. I live in Atlanta where the Southern girls, while being very nice do seem (many?) to maintain their distance (dating wise) from other races. Will I find better luck in places like California where girls are perhaps more open-minded?
In general, can some white females tell me at FACE VALUE if you consider dating/being in a relationship with someone like myself. I would like to kindly request for sincere answers. Although I am open for other kinds – is there a very low possibility for me to meet vegetarian white singles who are into spirituality (not religion), sports and perhaps the occasional Indian culture? THANK YOU!! Have a splendid day ahead!

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