Posted on 04 December 2012. Tags: Birthday, cafeteria, Facebook, fun, girls, guy, introvert, lunch, niche, plethora, Really, sorta, sweet 16
I’m a huge introvert so I’m REALLY not used to being social to others outside of my niche of friends.
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One day when I was at a friend’s Sweet 16 the guy and I sorta gravitated to together since we didn’t really know anyone there other than one and other plus the girl with the birthday. Anyways, we had a lot of fun together dancing and talking.
We’ve been talking on facebook frequently and he’s always the one to initiate them. However, during lunch we hardly talk to each other, not because it’s awkward or anything but because he has a LOT of friends and we have mostly different friends, so we’re on the opposite sides of the cafeteria. This had me wondering if he actually fancies me or is just friendly. He is always talking to other girls and hugging but he still talks to me even when he has a plethora of friends.
Also, we sorta made plans for this weekend to go to the movies.
I want to tell him I like him but I don’t want to say it if he was just being a friend.
Does he like me or am I just assuming to much?
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Posted on 31 May 2012. Tags: airhead, close friends, freshman year, introvert, living in the city, Party, party animal, Security, social closeness, social niche, social stability, stability, stereotype, undergrads, way
*I’m also female by the way
I didn’t make any friends in my dorm freshman year. I think this is because most of these women were dumb, party-animal, airhead types. We were nice to each other and all, but I really don’t think anyone could have forced us to be friends. Now, this doesn’t mean I don’t ever party, but I’m by no means the stereotype of a female college student.
I’m a junior next fall, and I have made some friends, including two close friends, but I really don’t feel any stability with my social life. In other words, I don’t feel like I have a “core” or “base” that keeps me feeling socially secure. I truly feel like I’m on my own and have to fend for myself. In some ways this is great because I’m an introvert and so I can have my “space”. Yet, when I want that social closeness (either from a friendship or relationship) I don’t have it… What I really want and feel I’m missing in my life is a sense of social stability/security… I haven’t found a social niche, really. There is one group I’m friends with (and can say I’m part of for the most part), but it still isn’t providing that security in terms of my social life.
I guess I just don’t like that I have all these connections, but little solid or reliable social support and security. How do I change this? Meeting people at this school is a ridiculous challenge. With 55,000 undergrads, even people who have joined smaller clubs are fairly distant. The atmosphere around here makes it challenging to make close friends unless you were already from the area
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Posted on 02 February 2011. Tags: competence levels, extrovert, face, few words, Gap, interview feedback, interviewers, introvert, minority, new acquaintances, niche, personality, stranger, subversion, US-has
Mr. X has always been within the top 5% performance niche in academics and generally performs well to outstanding at jobs.
Mr. X is more an introvert than extrovert. He spends most of the time alone but can get very open once used to new acquaintances.
Mr. X is “aggressive”. Does not invite subversion sometimes real/sometimes perceived and tends to stand out against subversion. He doesn’t kiss behind.
Mr. X isn’t very successful with women. Even after letting guard down, girls are receptive at first then start ignoring X. X tries to bridge the gap then cuts himself from the lady if non-response endures. Basically, he treats her like a stranger.
People tend to fear Mr. X. His naturally stern face coupled with his few words cause most to “avoid” confronting X.
Mr. X-a minority in US-has difficulty securing jobs despite high competence levels and very positive interview feedback from interviewers-when it’s a bad one you know it and they don’t complement it.
Describe Mr. X in whatever trait categories u prefer. Thanks.
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