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Me and my fiance are having a lot of problems. It would be easy for us to split if it were just him and I, but we have a 9 month old baby in the mix which makes things really really hard. We are not affiliated with any church and I would feel odd calling random churches asking for a minister to counsel us. Could someone plz tell me how I would go about getting this started and how much does a minster charge. I also would like to know if they would be judgmental of us since we have a child, live together but are not married.