Posted on 11 August 2012. Tags: 2 girls, attending college, college, concert, ex boyfriends, female friends, great friends, metalheads, one of the boys, one of the girls, one of the guys, problem, snobby, social niche, sort
Ok, so I had just started college and was having trouble finding my social niche. Eventually I found a group of (male) metalheads that I fit in with perfectly. We became great friends, but one of the boys wanted more than friendship. I insisted we remain friends. Now, not attending college with us, were 2 of their close female friends. They were very snobby and rude around me. After a concert we had attended, the 2 girls spread rumors that I had grabbed one of the guys’ crotches in the pit. Rumors started flying, and now I lost my “friends.” One of the girls’ ex boyfriends had been in the same situation (sort of) and he began talking to me, and we eventually became great friends and we are now dating. Now, the problem is, the guys of that metalhead group are toxic around him, the girls of that group are toxic to me. We see them almost every week at a friend’s band practice, and the tension is so thick you could cut it with a knife. What should I do to deal with this?
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Posted on 16 August 2011. Tags: abby, aim, Contact, didnt, face book, friendship, Game, good friend, heart, insults, occasional times, one of the girls, stalker, statuses, txt
ok so in high school a group of girls used to follow me around touch me innappropriately just harass and follow for a while. hell they even used to constantly check my fb page and quote my statuses on each others walls and take pictures of me sleeping in class. it was wierd. so we graduated and we lost touch except for the occasional times i posted on thier walls asking why they acted so strangely ro to explain specific actions they took. well time passed and that summer befoe college i was very vulnerable after dealing with some issues from my past one of the girls had began to talk to me through face book and i began to trust her. as time went on i fell for her but told her but she was falling for someone else i was happy for her but sad. then one day i saw her kiss the other guy and my heart actually hurt pysically worrse then anything i ever felt i cut off contact since i couldnt be a good friend or get over her while she was in my life sent her a txt asking her to delete my number from her phone. no response from her. found it strange that she would even txt me back to see why i was cutting her off especially since she was the one and only person i talked to about my past and how badly it messed me up. so i got past the pain and after a few months i got back in touch with her. i began to notice that if i didnt contact her first we wouldnt talk and that the very rare few times she contacted me first she always had friends with her. then she went back to her old harassing stalker ways and with our friendship alreay being rocky and volatile at best i cut her off for another month second i got back in touch i got an aim saying hey whats up they randome keys came across the chat window and then she (her account) begane to talk alot of thrash. i knew that she went comepletely back to her old tricks from highschool once again out to mess with me.so i decided not to dignify her insults with a response and hit her and her group where it hurts access to my fb page i blocked her and anyone affiliated with her. months passed and i slowly unblocked her friends one by one since i made my page completely private. one of them msged me saying how the girl i had cared about missed me and wanted to get in touch. i ignored and blocked her friends again. months passed and my friend contacts me saying the girl i liked (ill call her abby from now on) wanted to talk to me. i unblocked her msged her and went days without a response considering she was so persistant about talking to me but doesnt reply back i got mad i told her everything i thought about her her friends and what she did to me. she finally replied “i wasnt the one trash talking you so calm down u have no reasont o be mad at me” needless to say abby’s msg enraged me so i went off on her saying stuff im not proud of she deserved every foul word i said but i still felt like garbage about it. so another month passed and abby once again contacted me trying to get me to friend her on fb i told her i wasnt the same kid she met in hs i didnt have low selfesteem anymore and i wont be used for some sick game. she said she changed to and that if i added her she wouldnt even try and talk to me. i declined her. since its obvious to me she wants to stalk my page. so my question is ladies do u think given this information that she at any point cared about me or my friendship or has my suspicions about her and her group been right..that i was just a pawn in her twisted game? at this point aside from still kinda being sexually attracted to her (shes pretty cant help it) im done with her dont talk to her dont want to date or hang out with her. i have a low opinion of her and pity her since to me her actions show how weak she is.
so do u girls think she ever cared aboutme or our friendship or was it all a game to her? do u think i took the right steps to end this game i mean no access to my page no kore stalking right?
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Posted on 03 December 2010. Tags: Anybody, chicken teriyaki, fruits, Kitchener, kitchener ontario, korean bbq, love, lunch, one of the girls, recipe, s market, secret recipe, soy sauce, Street, Teriyaki
There’s a good Korean place in Kitchener, Ontario. It’s hidden on King street in a little plaza across from the Farmer’s Market; ate there in high-school at lunch. I usually get the Chicken Teriyaki with rice and the sauce that they put on it is so good! I don’t know the recipe for it but I wish i did because I’d love to make it at home.
I asked one of the girls working there and, somewhat hesitant, said that the lady in the back makes it, that she uses fruits and soy sauce and other stuff to make it. She wouldn’t tell me heh.
So…does ANY one know what this ‘secret’ recipe might be?
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