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Why Do People Want To Affiliate, And Why Don’t I?


I’m not sure why there are so many who are desperate to affiliate with others–to make friends, to fit in. I can understand from some point of view why that’s a natural human drive–it makes sense in an evolutionary context–but it’s not something I’m inclined to do. Although others like me, and I have perfectly competent social skills and physical looks, I always back out of any possible friendship with anyone, since I see no point to it, unless it’s for business. I really don’t care about personally knowing people who might be like me. I wouldn’t want to hang out with me; one of us would end up murdering the other at some point for some practical reason.
I’m getting really tired of people wanting to be friends with me. I keep trying to withdraw, but they treat me like I’m their buddy and want to do things with me, which I do not care for with any person. I’ve heard people take pleasure in companionship, but I don’t seem to. I act on my own and achieve what I want on my own. If I need a business relationship, I’ll make one, but I don’t make friendships for no real reason, or as an end in itself.
So what’s up with me? My parents are starting to lose it. I’m 24, and they’re always talking about how schizoid I am, or how I’m in denial about my desire to affiliate. I’m being honest when I say I don’t take pleasure in having things in common with others, or spending time with others. I don’t consider myself socially incompetent or that I’m unable to act social when necessary, but it’s never because I want to, and is for someone else any time I do it. I’m not shy or timid, and can approach people readily without a problem. It’s not a self-esteem thing; my self-esteem is fine, and I’m generally satisfied with things and myself. Others aren’t; they want me to be more social and outgoing, but I have no desire to. My father’s getting more and more frustrated as time goes on and I continue to lack interest in any kind of companionship or long-term relationship. How is that possible that I don’t feel the same way he does?

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if so, what were your comments on any of these products?
and if not, what are some of the things you take to increase your pleasure or your sex drive??
are there any pills in the market besides these that will help increase my desire for sex and/or increase my chances of reaching an orgasm?
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i’m only 19 years old, i’ve been with my wonderful boyfriend for almost 2 years; he’s 20 years old.
i am really athletic..i run 5-7 times a week (track&field) and i am a college student. I remember my desire for sex around 7th through 10th grade was really high after that i rarely had the desire for sex, i did loose my virginity to the guy i’m currently with so what could be wrong with me..my sex drive is really low and i have only orgasmed once during intercourse without having to touch myself.
do any of you have any secrets to increasing your sex drive and the ability to climax during sex without having to touch yourselves??

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