Posted on 18 June 2013. Tags: bras, Lingerie, Padded, relationships, Underwear, Wear, Women, Work
This question is for the ladies. Please try not to get too defensive. I am seeking information here, not trying to disrespect. My ex girlfriend wore them all the time and I wonder what the intention was. She also wore these tiny, sexy little Victoria’s Secret thongs. I’ve read about the bras being worn to make tops fit better and how some women just want to feel good about themselves, but I wonder, does any of that “feeling good about themselves” have to do with enjoying the feeling of being desired by other men? Is there a component to it that does indeed want to attract that kind of attention from men?
Ladies, you must feel quite sexy when you’re wearing these kinds of things. But why do you need or want to feel sexy like that when you’re away from your boyfriend/husband? You say it’s to feel good about yourself, but what if we wore frontally padded thong underwear to augment or enhance our selves, the kind that has a sheath around the shaft and a little fabric sac and nothing else? Doesn’t it stand to reason that if we’re going out like that WITHOUT you, be it to work, or out with our friends, wearing padded lingerie underwear that we’re up to something counter to the relationship?
I know for me, if I FEEL sexy then I am much more aware of myself and everyone else around me sexually. I can’t understand why I would want or feel the need to do that unless I had an intention to appear sexually available or involve myself sexually with others some how. And if I was really totally committed to my girlfriend or wife, I wouldn’t feel the need AT ALL to look or feel sexy when I’m not around her. I don’t want or need that kind of attention because I am off the market and satisfied.
I can understand looking good, as in professional or presentable, well groomed and feeling good about yourself THAT way, but I think there is something wrong with wanting to look sexy, away from your spouse, as a way to make yourself feel good. I would think that if that’s what is going on, then you are either looking to cheat, meet, flirt, or need validation from other men in order to feel good about yourself. All bad things for an exclusive committed relationship.
I’ve thought about this a lot and the whole, “I dress sexy for myself” argument doesn’t wash. WHY do you want, or feel the need, to look and feel sexually attractive away from your boyfriend or husband unless it’s to validate yourself through the sexual desire/attention of other men, or because you have intentions that are outside the boundaries of your current exclusive committed relationship? To me, it’s like if I wore these really tight jeans and stuffed a sock in my pants and went to work and out without my wife or girlfriend and then told her that I did that to feel good about myself or to make my pants fit better. Or I said, “Hey, I’ve always dressed like that, so get over it.” I know I would be lying because there’s no need to do that unless I’m up to something. So how is this different for women? I really don’t buy it. Please help me understand.
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Posted on 28 March 2013. Tags: Aged, Feeling, girls, Lucky, Middle, Need, school, Their, Underwear
http://theblacksphere.net/2013/03/victor…
What do you think about Victoria’s Secret new line of underwear marketed to middle school girls?
“The new brand called, “Bright Young Things,” includes lace black cheeksters with the word “Wild” emblazoned on it, green and white polka-dot hipsters screen printed with “Feeling Lucky?” and a lace trim thong with the words, “Call me” on the front.”
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Posted on 22 September 2011. Tags: "advent, brother, computer users, Core", Corner, dual core, insight, laptop, laptops, model, Plus, Smart, smart bro, sticky label, Underwear
My boyfriend recently bought me one of these laptops, on the box and the little sticky label that is on the corner of the laptop is states it is a dual core. Plus, it says it is a dual core on the websites for this model.
HOWEVER
It is not! My Computer-Smart bro has looked at its “underwear” (the secret bits I wouldn’t know how to find) and it clearly says it is a single core.
Why is this? How can Advent get away with lying and misleading like this? If it were not for my brother, I would not even have known this. Yet my laptop is increasingly slow, and annoying!
Is there a possibility that the “second” core is hidden/deactivated somehow? And if so, how can it be accessed. And even more, how can they market a product as dual core, when it is only working off ONE core, when the vast majority of computer users would not even notice, let alone be able to activate the second one (if that is even possible)
Any help or insight would be muchly appreciated 🙂
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Posted on 22 September 2011. Tags: "advent, 9 months, Advertising, computer users, Corner, dual core, false advertising, Label, laptop, long time, Rights, sticky label, thanks in advance, Underwear
My boyfriend “recently” bought me an Advent Modena M100 Blue laptop, on the box and the little sticky label that is on the corner of the laptop is states it is a dual core. Plus, it says it is a dual core on the websites for this model.
HOWEVER
It is not! My brother has looked at its “underwear” (the secret bits I wouldn’t know how to find) and it clearly says it is a single core.
Why is this? How can Advent get away with lying and misleading like this? If it were not for my brother, I would not even have known this.
How can they market a product as dual core, when it is only working off ONE core, when the vast majority of computer users would not even notice, let alone be able to activate the second one (if that is even possible – my brother thinks not)
Is there anything I can do about this?! It was bought for me christmas last year, so a long time ago, and has gone from slow to ridiculously slow during that time, hence finally getting my brother to look at it for me to see if anything needed fixing. Ideally Id like to complain to Advent and even more ideally get a replacement laptop that at least meets the stated specifications on this one, as those were the specs which were paid for in the first place.
Any advice on what rights I/my boyfriend have, if any? Thanks in advance
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Posted on 22 September 2011. Tags: "advent, Advertising, christmas, computer, computer users, Corner, dual core, false advertising, Label, laptop, long time, sticky label, thanks in advance, Underwear
My boyfriend “recently” bought me an Advent Modena M100 Blue laptop, on the box and the little sticky label that is on the corner of the laptop is states it is a dual core. Plus, it says it is a dual core on the websites for this model.
HOWEVER
It is not! My brother has looked at its “underwear” (the secret bits I wouldn’t know how to find) and it clearly says it is a single core.
Why is this? How can Advent get away with lying and misleading like this? If it were not for my brother, I would not even have known this.
How can they market a product as dual core, when it is only working off ONE core, when the vast majority of computer users would not even notice, let alone be able to activate the second one (if that is even possible – my brother thinks not)
Is there anything I can do about this?! It was bought for me christmas last year, so a long time ago, and has gone from slow to ridiculously slow during that time, hence finally getting my brother to look at it for me to see if anything needed fixing. Ideally Id like to complain to Advent and even more ideally get a replacement laptop that at least meets the stated specifications on this one, as those were the specs which were paid for in the first place.
Any advice on what rights I/my boyfriend have, if any? Thanks in advance
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Posted on 13 June 2011. Tags: budget, Expensive., female underwear, market, market research, range, sexy underwear, Underwear, victoria
Am doing some market research on female underwear trends. What age range do you feel is most likely to buy products from stores such as Victoria’s Secret, etc? Why? and what is their average budget for such things?
Thanks to all who reply in advance 🙂
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