Affiliate Marketing Secrets

Marketing to a woman is just like being in a relationship with them: you’ve got to understand why they’ve come to you and what they want from you. To market to men or to women, you have to create trust, but the ways to get it differ for the different genders. The key difference between marketing to men and marketing to women is that women want acknowledgment and if possible, empathy from the person they’re trying to engage with. If you’re currently in a market that specifically deals with women, follow these two steps to increase your commissions.

1. Acknowledge: In general, women just want to be understood. They don’t always expect the man to agree with them; as long as they have an ear out for their problems and acknowledge them, then the value she places on that topic is justified and she feels happy. This is no different online. You, the affiliate marketer, are the man. Sure, you could shove a product in her face, but that’s just going to make her “x” out of your site. And you don’t want that. Spend a little time acknowledging her. Show her that you care. She’s not talking to you, but predict what she would say if she winded up at your website. Do so on your front page in bold letters, or even in a video. Just let her know you’re there.

2. Empathise: Not everyone can do this. The marketers who can really are “the man”, for more reasons than one. Empathising goes beyond acknowledging how they feel. Empathising has to do with actually feeling it. This is somewhat difficult in online marketing in general; you can only go so far with written text, but that’s where the beauty of audio and video comes in. If you really want to make a mark in your niche, you’re going to want to try and empathise with the ladies.

Let them literally hear your voice. Lace your words with sadness at the frustration of unruly kids, thread shame into not being able to walk into a gym because you feel too fat. If you’re a man who can empathise with women, you’ve got even more going for you. It’s definitely harder to empathise if you’re a man but really, it’s just about picturing the woman in front of you, as if she were someone close and how you would respond to something that made her approach you for advice. Marketing is all about empathy.

Making sure that you abide by these two rules in all your marketing campaigns will iron-clad them. It doesn’t matter if your SEO rankings drop, or if your PPC doesn’t go too well one week. Women will remember the person who cares about them and they will directly return to your site. They will make an effort to remember the name and, if you permit them, your name even. This is powerful information that should be used only for good. Thankfully, usually only good people can understand and empathise.

This question is for the ladies. Please try not to get too defensive. I am seeking information here, not trying to disrespect. My ex girlfriend wore them all the time and I wonder what the intention was. She also wore these tiny, sexy little Victoria’s Secret thongs. I’ve read about the bras being worn to make tops fit better and how some women just want to feel good about themselves, but I wonder, does any of that “feeling good about themselves” have to do with enjoying the feeling of being desired by other men? Is there a component to it that does indeed want to attract that kind of attention from men?
Ladies, you must feel quite sexy when you’re wearing these kinds of things. But why do you need or want to feel sexy like that when you’re away from your boyfriend/husband? You say it’s to feel good about yourself, but what if we wore frontally padded thong underwear to augment or enhance our selves, the kind that has a sheath around the shaft and a little fabric sac and nothing else? Doesn’t it stand to reason that if we’re going out like that WITHOUT you, be it to work, or out with our friends, wearing padded lingerie underwear that we’re up to something counter to the relationship?
I know for me, if I FEEL sexy then I am much more aware of myself and everyone else around me sexually. I can’t understand why I would want or feel the need to do that unless I had an intention to appear sexually available or involve myself sexually with others some how. And if I was really totally committed to my girlfriend or wife, I wouldn’t feel the need AT ALL to look or feel sexy when I’m not around her. I don’t want or need that kind of attention because I am off the market and satisfied.
I can understand looking good, as in professional or presentable, well groomed and feeling good about yourself THAT way, but I think there is something wrong with wanting to look sexy, away from your spouse, as a way to make yourself feel good. I would think that if that’s what is going on, then you are either looking to cheat, meet, flirt, or need validation from other men in order to feel good about yourself. All bad things for an exclusive committed relationship.
I’ve thought about this a lot and the whole, “I dress sexy for myself” argument doesn’t wash. WHY do you want, or feel the need, to look and feel sexually attractive away from your boyfriend or husband unless it’s to validate yourself through the sexual desire/attention of other men, or because you have intentions that are outside the boundaries of your current exclusive committed relationship? To me, it’s like if I wore these really tight jeans and stuffed a sock in my pants and went to work and out without my wife or girlfriend and then told her that I did that to feel good about myself or to make my pants fit better. Or I said, “Hey, I’ve always dressed like that, so get over it.” I know I would be lying because there’s no need to do that unless I’m up to something. So how is this different for women? I really don’t buy it. Please help me understand.

I personally don’t affiliated with any political parties, but I can’t help but notice just how wonderful Conservative/Republican women are.
They are just so right, traditional, trustworthy, and classy. They also exhibit a certain beauty and feminine allure that I just can’t find in any other women.
It just has to be said.

ow many men does it take to change a light bulb?
Two million, six hundred and twenty thousand, and ninety four.
1 to buy the bulb, change it and throw the old one in the bin
2000 to extract, ship, design and forge, deliver, market and sell the raw materials for the bin
5 to crew the wagon that carries the old light bulb away.
20 to man their refuse depot.
40 to man the landfill site that buries the old bulb
20 to wrestle the fundamental secrets of electricity from the universe
5 to invent the lightbulb after decades of trial, error, sweat, risk, insight and innovation
3 to design the particular style of bulb
100,000 to evolve the glassblowing process over millennia of tragic accidents and astonishing inspiration
2000 to design, inspect, approve, construct, secure, maintain and wire the building that the light socket sits in
500,000 to build and maintain the infrastructure that delivers energy to the light socket
1000 to build the factory that made the light bulb
5000 to man the supply chain of raw materials for it
1,000,000 to build their ships, trains and trucks
10,000 to tarmac the road and lay the tracks that the raw materials traveled over
1,000,000 to insure them all, and to never breathe a word about their loss
How many women does it take to change a lightbulb? One
One to nag her boyfriend to buy the lightbulb. The same one to get him to drive her to the DIY store and wait while she takes an hour to choose the one she wants, then borrow the money off and never pay it back. The same one to expect him to drive her home and nag him to fit the bulb. The same one to complain it is too bright / dim / colourful / bland / over designed / under designed, to stage an environmental protest outside the landfill site, sue the builders for sexual discrimination, write a false history that marginalized the men who made it possible, and demand that everyone around her pays for her massively overpriced, self-aggrandising wedding. The same one to divorce him, steal all his earnings, shove him out of his children’s lives, manipulate the legislative process and its enforcers to entrench her position, falsely accuse the builders of sexual assault, claim all the credit for a reproductive process in which she is entirely passive and indulged, make self-serving assertions that everything would be far better if women had done it all, and to call all her friends to ***** about having to change the lightbulb without any support from her useless ex-husband.

ow many men does it take to change a light bulb?
Two million, six hundred and twenty thousand, and ninety four.
1 to buy the bulb, change it and throw the old one in the bin
2000 to extract, ship, design and forge, deliver, market and sell the raw materials for the bin
5 to crew the wagon that carries the old light bulb away.
20 to man their refuse depot.
40 to man the landfill site that buries the old bulb
20 to wrestle the fundamental secrets of electricity from the universe
5 to invent the lightbulb after decades of trial, error, sweat, risk, insight and innovation
3 to design the particular style of bulb
100,000 to evolve the glassblowing process over millennia of tragic accidents and astonishing inspiration
2000 to design, inspect, approve, construct, secure, maintain and wire the building that the light socket sits in
500,000 to build and maintain the infrastructure that delivers energy to the light socket
1000 to build the factory that made the light bulb
5000 to man the supply chain of raw materials for it
1,000,000 to build their ships, trains and trucks
10,000 to tarmac the road and lay the tracks that the raw materials traveled over
1,000,000 to insure them all, and to never breathe a word about their loss
How many women does it take to change a lightbulb? One
One to nag her boyfriend to buy the lightbulb. The same one to get him to drive her to the DIY store and wait while she takes an hour to choose the one she wants, then borrow the money off and never pay it back. The same one to expect him to drive her home and nag him to fit the bulb. The same one to complain it is too bright / dim / colourful / bland / over designed / under designed, to stage an environmental protest outside the landfill site, sue the builders for sexual discrimination, write a false history that marginalized the men who made it possible, and demand that everyone around her pays for her massively overpriced, self-aggrandising wedding. The same one to divorce him, steal all his earnings, shove him out of his children’s lives, manipulate the legislative process and its enforcers to entrench her position, falsely accuse the builders of sexual assault, claim all the credit for a reproductive process in which she is entirely passive and indulged, make self-serving assertions that everything would be far better if women had done it all, and to call all her friends to ***** about having to change the lightbulb without any support from her useless ex-husband.

It’s a fetish that I have. I’m not trolling, I really do like to the different smells and the pheromones, but usually I end up having to wait 2 or 3 times after having sex with them until their comfortable with the whole “lick-o-tongue” practice. I just have to find my niche I suppose, because according to a handful of friends apparently there exists women who enjoy doing the same thing to men. So if there are any of you out there, feel free to message my yahoo account if you’er single. I know it’s not Craigs, but hey you gotta network somehow.