So…hi I’m Monica. I’m 22, a senior in college, and I only have like two close friends right now, which is great, but not that easy, because they both go to a faraway school (while I live at home and commute to a smaller, closeby school). They also both have boyfriends, so they’re not always around to talk to. I work for a public relations committee, and my job is exhausting along with school, so I don’t have very many friends around here, seems like everyone has their niche anyway. I also haven’t had a boyfriend in three years. I’ve dated, but most guys want flings, and I don’t..so I end up being pretty lonely haha.
Overall, it’s hard not having many people to lean on and support me, and I’ve recently made a friend who’s also an English major like me; her name’s Ashley, and she’s extremely overweight, and for some reason, it seems to bother people a lot. my brother says she’s “gross,” and even my friends laughed when they saw her picture. A guy who always flirts with me in school once saw me talking to her, gave me the weirdest look ever, and walked away. The next time he saw me, he didn’t even speak to me. My mom thinks that I have “low standards” for talking to someone who looks like her, and that hanging out with her in public will make me look bad and make people not want to talk to me. People who are close to me keep saying things like, “You’re a pretty girl, in shape and you maintain yourself, why do you talk to someone like that?” And I don’t know how to respond to that. Are they right? It just seems so awful, but it seems like everyone, not just friends and family, but even aquaintances that I just say hi to and make small talk with at school treat me differently now that I talk to her. She’s a sweet girl, so why are people acting like this? What can I do?
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Why Are People Acting Like This? What Can I Do? I Need Some Help, Please! Haha Thanks!?
Posted on September 7, 2010.
people like to attack other people to make themselves feel better. if she’s nice and you like her, be her friend. who cares how much she weighs?
It just makes more sense to judge people for their looks.
I hate discrimination, so I know how you feel. Don’t give up on being friends with this girl just because other people are being mean. When they give comments like that, tell them “Well that was rude.” Or something. People need to know when they’re making inappropriate comments, and don’t feel shy. If someone was talking about you that way just based on appearances, you’d think that was totally shallow and want someone to stand up for you, right? Right.
They are absolutely wrong!
These people sound like they are all very immature, biased and judgmental. I wouldn’t even associate with anyone who talks about her like that. She sounds like a nice girl, so just be friends with her. If you like her, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. If anyone confronts you, just tell them that it’s YOUR LIFE and she’s YOUR FRIEND. They are being very immature to bash on someone just for their weight.