My boyfriends sex drive is low around me, but there are times when he may take care of it himself just to get it out of the way. I would have sex all the time if I could but I can’t seem to find his niche and he doesn’t seem to know it. Help!
Posted on November 1, 2010.
My boyfriends sex drive is low around me, but there are times when he may take care of it himself just to get it out of the way. I would have sex all the time if I could but I can’t seem to find his niche and he doesn’t seem to know it. Help!
Spanish flies dear
Tell him you want to have sex more.
Or just seduce him, that always works.
OK talk to him…. Tell him what your needs are. Ask why he does it to himself? Tell him not to fear him telling you the truth you wont get mad. Please dont just say that and get mad anyway like most girls do and then he will never be honest with you again.
It may be that you are not good at it. OK dont take that the wrong way. The ones that are good is because of practice. That means they have slept around. Not telling you to do that but that is the truth. I have been with many woman and I tell you that the ones that sleep around are awesome at it. The problem is I dont want to date them but love sleeping with them.
Sex is very important in a relationship. You must resolve this or it will lead to break up or one of you cheating. Ask him what is his fantasy when he does it to himself and give him that.