He always tell a story of someoneelse doing sex with me. we are enjoying our lives very happily. have two kids. i am 32. he is 43. ours is arranged love marriage. before my marriage i had sex with a neighbour for 4 years. he knows it well. he never made a negative comment about that. he often tells, if that man comes to our house, he will make me to have sex with that man oncemore. he enjoys that. because of that i have a desire to have sex with others. even if i get angry he wont. he always think very positively. oneday i was teaching computer to a 20 year old boy, he squeezed my breast unexpectedly. my husband noticed it. he just smiled and said enjoy.oneday the same boy came to our house to get a certificate from my husband. while he was attending a phone call, he put his hand on my thigh and rubbed over my panties. i scolded him. my husband said its ok. don’t feel nerious.my husband went out for shopping to let the boy chat with me. the boy was trying to do. but i refused and stopped him. four years passed. till date my husband did not ask a single word about that. I am in a great confusion, whether to have or not. plz advice me. while we were not attracted to each other (before 1995) he know my secret life. he has seen me with other guy in room many times. in spite of this our love blossomed and got married. he is very open. we both go to office jointly and come back the same way. while we go out, always we go as a family even to market/ entertainment etc.unless he/ or i am ill we would always be together.i was reserved before and after marriage. he only compelled me to chat with his friends and i became very open. i was dressing to cover up my whole body. But he bought new model dresses and now i am so modern. he never raise even adoubt about my phone calls, e mails or expense or whatever. most of the time , he asked his friends to drop me(two wheeler) if he was sick. if the same love continues, i will allow anyone to have his taste. but to go ahead for me is a question.
Being with other people when married is wrong but you & your husband have to make that decision for yourselves. Talk it over with him & whatever you both decide to do then do what is best for the two of you not what other people believe you should do.
If he agrees go on & enjoy. What is the hurdle. U r lucky 2 get such a nice husband.
It look very strange, You husband does not react at all when a Boy trying to touch you.
Does he love or care for you?
Any self respected person can not tolerate such thing or even think to make her wife to have sex with other person…
Just talk to him….
Well if it is going to endanger your marriage and you also want it then do it.
oh god dont do it dont even think ur married now u have children have some dignity and self-respect.
just be faithful to ur husband
WHAT…you guys think you some pornstars?? He is using you as a tool if you ask me.
he “probably” doing somebody and is trying to make you relive your past which is bad whether you liked it or love it. its not healthy,think about the kids if they find out one day. you guys are married,dont do things that you guys arent suppose to do. that type of relationship is not the right one for you “no offen” things will get outta hand sooner or latter.
NO, it is not good. Don’t do it….you will loose your self-respect.
he wants to hump another man !? uh oh….time for a divorce and quick.
You’re married for a reason. Having sex with another man is adultery whether your husband approves or not. It’s wrong. If you love your husband have sex with your husband.
Simply put… you are not comfortable with it… so don’t do it….
You have now started feeling like doing it because he has being saying it so much.
It’s evident you don’t like the idea at all…. TELL HIM THIS IN THESE MANY WORDS…
And yes, the idea of him being unfaithful and trying to reduce the guilt is also pretty likely. If I were you, I would ask him why he is so persistent when you have already said no.
yes, we have heard this from you before.
There are number of persons like your husband. Every body has a different taste in satisfying their sex appetite. There are many methods used by humans right from the pre historic ages in satisfying their lust for sex. Your husband gets more satisfaction on dreaming/telling stories about yourself having sex with another person than actually having it with you.
Your husband may be a good person and leads a happy and decent life in public. But no one close to him will ever know that he has this taste. Unless he compel you to do this for sadistic likes or monetary gains, he can not be branded as a rogue.
There are 2 ways to overcome this problem
1. You should actively enjoy telling stories ( as if it happened in real life ) that you had sex with other person to your husband, while both of you are in the bed. You should be able to fabricate stories that interest your husband. This would definitely satisfy his sexual feelings most than actually having sex with you.
Thus you can satisfy your huppy without actually doing it.
2. Having Sex with a third person with the knowledge of your husband. But it creates lot of problems in the future.
1.Third person may black mail you and your husband.
2, If others come to know of it, many crooks will take advantage over this
3. What will happen to you and your children in the future ?
Your mind is the best judge, act wisely.
He is looking forward to milk you and make some money……………. good , if you want then pl go ahead you will have both fun and money.
He is humping someone else. If you do it too, it helps with his guilt.
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Obey him and go to hell quickly.
This needs to a joint decision. If you are open to having sex with other men then do so. Are you also open to him having sex with other women? If you are then agree to have an open marriage. from what you say he seems he only wants your happiness but I think you need to discuss rules of engagement so that everyone has a good time and remains safe.
o my God. you got such a nice husband. Most of the indian husbands are very possessive. they even won’t imagine other men looking at her. You are so lucky. I have a friend who always suspect his wife and asks 1000s of questions a day. i think you both are very matured to be so broad to accept each others need. just one thing, be careful about the third person. just have everything but don’t let your heart mind trapped by the third party. because some other third parties will create problems. the survey taken in india shows that 91% of married women and husband have extra marital sex with one or more persons but not known to the other partner. everything happens in india secretly. no body knows who does what. in your case you are free from the secret.
Indian ladies will answer this question from their own husbands behaviour and experience. So, you have lot of different opinion.
This is from a well trained psychologist
if there is no problem to u r husband den why u r teking tension….
tricky situation…
nw think wat u wnt to do..whthr u wnt to sleep with sum1 else or not..if u want to gio ahead n do tat.. n let ur husband not be the reason.
but reding from ur letter it seems that ur husband also seems to be having sex with others girls..else his beahaviour is not justified.
can u accept him having sex with sumbodu else other than u??