with her? If she want to hug me and kiss me but I don’t want the possibility of me depending on her warmth and love, what should I do? When the girl tries to kiss me I kiss her back but only briefly and the same for the hugs? I’m hetrosexual and sometimes I feel like kissing her and holding her. I only talk to her to be polite and relatively sociable but if she wouldn’t notice then I probably wouldn’t at all. I also feel that I am partly with her to fit into a social niche, and to be percieved as popular, and so that that when I meet up with people I can take her with me etc. Although she is percieved as beutiful i don’t want to love her. What should I do? Whats your opinion of this? Details?
if you thinks shes attractive and she thinks the same way go for it cause you may not get another shot at it for a long time
I KNOW THE FEELING ITS A B******* ISNT IT!
for one thing if you dont want to be with her then stop leading her on.. its really not nice. Its not that hard to not kiss/hug someone if you dont want to be with them you just dont lol.
You’re doing just fine. keep it up.
Is this because you don’t want to be with her or you’re afraid to be with her. If you don’t want to be with her, you should be honest with her and tell her so that she’s not being led on and you’re not stuck doing something you don’t want to do. If it’s because you’re afraid to be with her, then you really shouldn’t worry about it. Let yourself fall in love with her. Don’t pass up a chance to be with someone who you could potentially love. If things don’t work out, then they don’t work out. Life goes on and all you can do it move on with it.
A beautiful girl that likes you and kisses you and rubs up against you but you don’t want to fall in love? Stop seeing and kissing and hugging her. Let her find someone looking for what she is. I mean if pretty girls liking you is so common feel free to waste them, there are plenty of others out there looking for empty relationships or only physical companionship. You shouldn’t be wasting her time or your own. good luck.