I recently contacted an ex of mine due to some possibilities of collaborating for my new job. I email from work during work hours becuase I wanted to keep it professional. I then get a missed call from him Saturday at noon where he says he wants me to call and explain more.
Today we managed, after several days, to talk on the phone for 10 minutes. During that time he asks me if I enjoy my new job? I said “I’m not sure yet because it is superstressful”. And he goes “well, that’s very typical of you… taking a long time to decide” (refering obviously to me taking too long to decide whether I wanted to stay with him earlier).
I thought it was quite a rude comment. He also asks whether the company is really going well (we’re market leader and Europe’s biggest in our niche). Him and me had talked before about getting a dog and he says “I’ve gotten a dog now”.
Every time I talk to him it feels like he’s trying to hurt me on purpose and he seems really keen on telling me that he’s now doing all the stuff that we used to talk about, but on his own. And every time he has to tell me that he’s been working out that day. Honestly, what do I care??
It was actually him ending our story because he didn’t like that I told him about a collegaue of mine hitting on me. Why is he doing this when it was HIM breaking up? I so don’t get it…