Okay, so I’m gay. When I look at other gay people I kind of feel ashamed because of their actions. Not all gay people, only the really feminine ones. Is this weird, does anyone else feel the same way? It’s as if I don’t want to be affiliated with them.
It’s not an uncommon experience. You need to appreciate that there are different kinds of people in the world and not one or two types of gay people. Maybe do some reading/research on what they call internalized homophobia.
I don’t know how much help I can give you. I’m gay and refuse to fit stereotypes. What I realized is that I’m different, and their expression of self is different than mine. It’s not to me to say if they’re right or wrong; we’re human and we have to take take care of each other. Gay, lesbian, straight, transsexual; it doesn’t matter a damn.
No, I’m not ashamed. I might ask that we don’t so neatly fit media stereotypes, but that’s not my choice to make.
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yeah I understand how you feel. I don’t like the fact that they’re the sterotypical gay, when in reality very few gay people are completely feminine like everyone thinks. Most gay people are just as straight acting as straight people.
omg u have a weird avatar… its like one of those 4 rapists in the news… n like my friend shannon is a super lesbain but im not ashamed of her n stuff
Seems normal to me. I’m ashamed to see guys act like “bros” with their retarded lingo. To hell with wanna-be frats and frats alike, they make me ashamed to be human
Why are you ashamed of individuality?
I feel you Joshua although I prefer Vagina.
gaylords!!
To each his own.