I think my friend is using me to get free alcohol because I know a lot of people who will buy me it (we are underage) and every time I invite her out she asks, “Are we getting drunk?” Me, another friend and the suspected user are quite a tight-knit group who always hang out together and affiliate ourselves with each other, but recently we have been having suspicions- she also says sometimes that she isn’t allowed out if drink is not guaranteed and at school she NEVER sees us- she hangs around with a different group at breaks and gets away to talk to other friends in lessons whenever she can, seems uninterested every time we have a conversation etc. She is a nice person I think and she’s boy-obsessed and her ex who she still loves hangs with her friends she sees all the time at break instead of us so that might be the reason too… But still, I’m getting a bit worried about it, am I just being paranoid or could she be using me?
Thanks 🙂
Probably but confront her on what you think and don’t be sweet about you need to make her understand you don’t appreciate being used
this hoe is using you! not being funny but you should just tell her to chip. like she doesn’t seem to act as a real friend to you, that’s not cool. if you say to her that alcohol isn’t guaranteed then she wont come out with you, idk man.
ditch that mofo. or talk to her. but id go with the first one:)
talk to a councelor immediatly. at school or otherwise! sounds like she is and…..if she is binge drinking, she could kill herself.