I feel enormous guilt over the fact that I haven’t found a particular talent or niche or whatever in life, that I just work hard at a full-time job but I’m not particularly passionate about it and am not also in school or pursuing something else. I realize that this is mostly because of other people and their expectations of me. All I really want, what I really dream about, is marrying my long-term boyfriend who I love very very dearly and can’t imagine being with anyone else, and having a baby together. He wants to get married too, we’ve talked about it, but for some reason hasn’t asked me. Is there something wrong with me for just wanting to marry him and have a family together, and to be the best mother and wife I can be? Is there something insufficient about that?
Do what makes you happy, If he won’t ask you, sit down and talk to him about it. you ask him possibly, men don’t always have to propose.