I’m 18 years old. i have been “seeing” a guy for about 1 month now. He is also 18 (about to be 19 soon). My friends have told me that he is a bad influence and disrespectful. They have told me his is gang affiliated. At age 18 he already has three mugshots and has been expelled twice from school (only lasted 2 months at his last one). I want to like him but for obvious reasons in apprehensive. I think he is funny and a great guy but his past scares me.
What do you think?
Is three mugshots and 2 expulsions a lot to rack up for 19 year old?
I need some genuine advice. 10 points
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Scared To Go Further With Boyfriend. Advice? 10 Points?
Posted on August 4, 2012.
Its better to leave him. You will regret in both cases though.
Its a lot for a 19 year old to have 3 mugshots and expulsions from school.
BUT
what you have to decide is if he’s actually changed into a better person and learned from his mistakes. Everyone has those skeletons in their closet, but what you chose to do because of them is what makes it okay.
If your friends are still saying that he’s rude then he probably hasn’t really changed. Don’t force yourself to stay with him or to like him. Everything comes natural. If you’re having doubts, its probably what’s not best for you.
This is coming from a guy who has had friends just like him…. Trust me if all of your friends say the same thing they are probably right… They’re looking out for you anyways… My advise is get out before you find out if he’s physical… There are better guys in the world… Bu in the end it’s your relationship and it’s your choice…
Ive learned the hard way that people rarely change & b/c of it I’ve been burned badly.
So my advice is Be Picky especially when it comes to romantic relationships. His reputation may be in the past but it can still hurt you. & the last thing you want is to be attached to someone who’s going to hurt you.
It’s your choice completely. But if were you, I’d probably stop seeing him. He sounds like bad news :/ But the thing is, listen to your heart. If you worry he might get you into trouble, maybe you should stop seeing him. If you really, really like him and think he’s changed, ignore your friends! I hope everything turns out ok 🙂
Honey, i think that u need to keep everything in mind before u take a decision. He might be a great guy but the question is is he safe enough to be with? Most of the people like him do stuff like that because of anger management issues or suffering child abuse.After all, even they want to be loved,right? Will u be able to handle that? U may even be the person who can change his life and show him what life is. But what if he doesn’t change?? is he worth the risk it takes?
I would honestly suggest that you take some time to think it through.
I pray that u find the best solution.
Sometimes it’s hard to make these kind of decisions.It’s your choice but if anything bad happens don’t go out with him again or at least don’t see him again.Hope you work it out.