You ever been in a situation where ; people that you want nothing to do with,keep trying to affiliate with you?
how would you deal with that ? i know it probably sounds unusual, but a situation where your not interested in knowing or having anything to do with a set of people….but they keep trying to involve themselves in your life or associate your name with them ?..affiliate with you, connect your identity to theirs ?
i encountered this mainy years ago with some irish people… im non irish, also some british people….im non british, some african americans online…..im non african american .
i kept making it plain and simple that i wanted nothing to do with them…meaning; at all.
but i kept finding out through word of mouth they would talk about me and keep trying to associate my name with theirs ? connecting me to them?……….when their is no connection and never will be.
plus..if i get aggressive with them, that will just further involve me with them..and i dont want THAT.
if anyone has dealt with this, how did you deal with it.
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You Ever Been In A Situation Where ; People That You Want Nothing To Do With,keep Trying To Affiliate With You?
Posted on September 23, 2012.
Don’t confuse people who want to affiliate with you, which is none, you’ve never been popular, with people you’ve victimized and who claim their due. Particularly, people you envy so much that you want to copy them, imitate them, usurpate their place and steal what they have. In fact, I would be very happy to learn you don’t want anything with me, but I doubt it after all the harm you did to me, like contaminating me with hepatitis and stealing my boyfriend, and slandering me to keep your brother away from me, just because you envy me so much, that you left your newly married husband to move in with my boyfriend and you bragged on the internet: “I’m living your life”. Nobody wants to associate with a criminal, believe me, everybody hates criminals like you.