lately ive been feeling very depressed because i constantly have these desires to dress up like a girl. ever since i can remember ive always fantasized what i would be like if i was a girl instead of a guy. im a 23 year old straight guy that’s into working out at the gym and everything normals guys like to do but deep down im holding onto a secret that ive only very recently told one of my female friends but shes not in my life anymore. my question is, are their many girls out there that would be completely okay with their boyfriend if he like doing this kind of thing? my ex girlfriend dressed me up once and it made me feel so happy. im not sure if she was that into it but it was so fun for me and i felt so great 🙂 we went shopping together and bought girl clothes for me. lingerie and sexy outfits and i even bought a couple wigs online and she got me makeup lol. i know this sounds weird and everything but we were totally messing around and having fun that night dressing me up and making me look like a girl lol. im a good looking guy and i actually looked really pretty as a girl! it made me feel so beautiful 🙂 i had a long, thick, dark brown wig on with wavy hair styled up in the back and i got to have really dark mascara and pink sparkling lip gloss. my eyelashes looked so great cuz i have naturally long ones lol. she also had me put on black fishnet stockingss with bows on them and red leggings things underneath and this like sexy santa outfit :))) she took pictures of me and i took some of myself and my greatest fantasy finally came true haha. i looked SUPER sexy and pretty in all of the pictures too! 😀 for years and years i always dreamed of having a girl give me a makeover and help me dress up in heels and a wig and have girl-time. i think maybe its my way of escaping from everyday life or something but i just cant help wanting to do it no matter how hard i try, i think about it a lot :/ i feel really alone with this and i cant talk to ANYONE about it 🙁 your opinions are really appreciated and if someone can help me feel better with this that would be really nice. i dont know what to do about these feelings anymore. im seriously a TOTALLY normal guy besides this. i work 6 days a week in the freezing cold as a marketing specialist and ive become the lead guy in my department. maybe if im really lucky some nice person on here will talk to me so i can get some of this off my chest? i havent even slept yet tonight. thanks guys and please dont leave any rude comments i know this is a strange question i just dont know where else to turn :/
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Guy Dressing Up Like A Girl…would A Girl Still Accept Her Boyfriend If She Found Out He Loved To Crossdress?
Posted on January 12, 2013.
You’re a crossdresser. Most crossdresers are heterosexual, whether they are dressed or not.
As for women, some are turned on by it, some are okay with it and may even help you, some really don’t care one way or the other (hey, you’re the one crossdressing, not me) some don’t like it (you can do it, just not around me) and some are GTFO! (they walk out the door and refuse to acknowledge that they know you.)
Crossdressing does seem to relieve stress, both because the demands of being a male or alpha male are removed for a period of time and often because crossdressing tends to involve masturbation (sex is always a good reliever of tension)
Sounds like you had a mind blowing time with your ex and you may have hit the high point there. Although women today are more open to different things, crossdressing is not high on the list (this despite the fact that most women crossdress, wearing jeans, tshirts, tennis shoes, boyfriend shirts and boxers,e tc). Most of these were once the sole property of guys.
Anyway, while crossdressing is a “deviant” act, it’s not wrong. It just means it deviates from the social norm. Many guys don’t realize that girls would KILL for their eyelashes and many guys have worn panties under thier clothes (more than will admit). About 5-10 percent of all guys have probably crossdressed in their lives and many continue to do so.
The myths are that crossdressers want to change thier sex (they don’t) they are trying to pickup guys because they are really homosexuals (we’re not, we dress for ourselves, not to troll for guys) or they are just freaks (ok, we are different from the rest of the population, but that’s just because we can look for damn feminine when we dress)
I’ve been crossdressing for nearly 40 years now, married for more than half of that and yes she knows, but doesn’t approve. I’ve been out in public and I know that I pass. Crossdressing isn’t the main point of my life, but it is a part of it and I’ve accepted it and integrated it into who and what I am. Just enjoy it, dress for yourself first and with a little luck, the right girl will be the one who understands you and your need to crossdress.