Im asking this because Im hesistant of asking this girl out that I’ve like for a min, and shes been giving me signs that the feelings mutual. She has a better paying job than me which doesnt bother or emasculate me its just she the fact she has a car, going to college and she is more outgoing than me. However shes not loud and rather softspoken but charismatic, which is why Im attracted to her. So I just wanted to know if should I really be concerned about this.
Im not a couch potato nor want to be portrayed as one to her, I do have goals and ambition( I want to be an Artist, Writer, Poet, or Musician). I attended community college for fine arts and never finished toward gaining my associates and dropped out due to I had a falling off and lost the desire and passion for art. I took this time off from school wanting to get my first job at 21 at an entry level min wage postion at the hotel, where I happen to meet her (but thats besides the point). I worked here for about 2 years with plans on moving on to a better job but havent quite did yet. I do alot of poetry writing and writing rap music and told I have a niche for it. ( heres one of my song links to prove to you: https://soundcloud.com/adsdxk/everyday ) I had no knowledge in writing and wanted to go back to school for english literature not only to better my writing but possibly become a writer or anything in the field of that, if music and poetry writing isnt for me.
Currently I have been going through alot and once again drop out of school before even finishing the first semester for english literature because of complications with work and my personal life. Now I know I have said to much but I want to ask if I am in any position to go out with this girl. My mother once told me to take a chance before its to late and I never know what could have happened and I dont want this girl to go and disapear from my life not knowing what can happen. Despite their are plenty of women in the world ( i dont want to you to tell me this), I feel like she might be the one and I have to say something. Could someone please help me with this and how I should go about thinking about this. also here is a link to a poem I wrote about her to show you how crazy I am for her. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
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Is It Possible For Me To Date A Female Who Has More Than Me?
Posted on May 8, 2013.
if she likes you and is smart, intelligent and successful, DATE HER! You are letting your ego get in the way. Who cares that she has more stuff than you?
You will never know until you try!!! Answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoZvajBkCqB6yM_is0b8BJbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20130506160854AA4Kzry
If it doesn’t bother the two of you then date. There are plenty of things you can do that don’t cost very much. Ask her out and see what happens. You don’t have to plan for anything more than today while just dating.
Go for it! If she’s giving you signs that she’s into you too, then what’s to lose. If she’s as great as you think she is, your money, our lack there of, shouldn’t matter. My boyfriend is flat broke, has no job, and can’t buy my all the things I’d like to have, but he loves me with all his heart and soul and that’s all the matters to me (: good luck! Hope things work out! (:
If you like someone, you like them, no matter what. If she likes you, she likes you no matter what. It really is that simple.
Throw yourself out there in the world and ask her out! and you’ll never know until you try if she likes you back it shouldn’t matter love is what counts not the job or the money! So therefor yes it is possible! If your fine with it and she’s fine with it then go for it! Good luck in life!
Hope I helped! xoxo
If you both like each other,then NOTHING else should matter.
Go for it. If she really is worth your love, she won’t judge you because of your failures, but instead she will support you and help you make achievements. Don’t ever allow yourself to have that feeling of not being “good enough” for someone else; if they really are deserving of you, they will always make sure that the two of you feel as equals, not as if one is superior to the other.
yes, as long as the feeling is mutual and you understand each other’s financial boundaries, then its ok. try asking her on a date you can afford and not something like fine dining which is expensive at first (just to impress) but you cannot sustain for the rest of the relationship.