Would you tell your friend if you caught her boyfriend at the club?
I am feeling a little frustrated right now… I went to a straight club, I’m gay by the way, and saw my friend’s boyfriend there without her. I call her up just to see if she was there too she said no that she is at home in bed. I tell her that her boyfriend is at the Crosby’s and she is like WTH!! she said she would call me back. She calls me back and is like it’s ok he is not there he is somewhere else, meaning he straight out lied to her. The boyfriend sees me and another of our mutual friends and walks out. I took a snapshot of him outside with 2 girls and sent it to her. She tells me thank you for being a friend and minutes later the boyfriend calls me and starts cussing at me and tells me he is coming back to kick my ***. He comes back and gets kicked out of the club for trying to start a fight, but I was there celebrating my friend’s new job so I tried not to cause a rukus. He texts me with “I’ll catch you slippin.” He is affiliated with gangs and he tells me every time he is going to get me back. My friends who aren’t really my friends I guess tells me that I am causing drama. The ex friend tells me that because of me, my friend is crying and I tell him I am not the reason why she is crying, the lying boyfriend is the reason why she is crying. This is what the boyfriend last text me… I just took out names… “the most logical thing to do would be to confront me and ask me whats going on. you decided to be a drama starter and rat me out and EVEN snap a picture. who da **** does that?!? if you were put in my situation, ud b furious too. i was considering dropping it because you are so and so friend. but for u to deliberately continue to run your mouth added fuel to the fire. u have my word u better pray we dont ever cross paths. i dont care how many people are with u. i even told so and so that if u were to apologize to me, i drop it for her…” What would you do in this situation? What annoyed me is obviously she is with him and I feel that she didn’t defend me or maybe she is completely on his side… bleh to me Id be more hurt if my bf was somewhere without my knowledge and my friend saw him and didn’t even tell me… but i guess everyone is different… Just this morning he keeps texting me with he is going to get me back for being a snitch and last thing I respond to him is… the lies got you where you are at today, not me so stop blaming me for your faults and if you keep texting me with threats I will go to the cops because it’s harrassment…