I’m in a sorority in Montana, and I’m considering transferring to the University of Oregon. I don’t know a lot about my house at U of O, although I do know greek life is very different from Montana, especially because it is so much bigger. I’m nervous about transferring, mostly just because I’m not sure I would feel welcome at this new chapter, and I don’t know what their rules are about affiliating or living in the house as a transfer. I would want to be able to live in, and I don’t even think I’d want to transfer if I couldn’t be affiliated with my house at my new school. It’s not official that I’m transferring, so I don’t want to talk to my president or the other chapter’s president about it at this point. I haven’t even really told my parents that I’m seriously considering transferring, although they do know that I applied. I know this is a long question, I’m just super nervous about transferring and then regretting it!
When you look back in a few years after you have settled in the job market, being in sorority will not mean that much by then.
I am a school nurse at a large University with dozens of fraternity groups. Most of the students have told me that being in the group will not help them with any potential employers. They realize that the main reason to join one was to meet people, and to party. If that is your main goal, so be it.
My god, you’re approaching college like you’re still a little high school girl.