Help me please my cousin/Brother past away 2 years ago and it still really herts what can i do; I cant vist him to the cementary because my father says that there aint nothing to go see but im pretty sure its because he was Gang Affiliated and got shot at age 15 and he wasent the one that they where trying to hit but any ways what can i do??? Im going to start visting him like in July next year because i will have my car by then but what can i do for now??