Affiliate Marketing Secrets

I started my blog about a month ago and during the last few weeks I actually went on different forums in my niche, wrote articles and everything to get my blog out there, but still each time I go on Alexa or Google Webmasters I cannot see what websites are linking to me or any other traffic information besides my ranking from Alexa which is like 7million… Can someone help me?
I am a dancer, I don’t know much about online things, writing the blog is hard enough.

So here’s a girl.
She’s outgoing, enthusiastic and sociable.
She’s bubbly and cute.
She’s funny, makes the whole room laugh.
She’s beautiful inside out.
She’s so sweet, so nice and polite and smiley.
She’s a postive person.
She’s friendly, makes people around her feel comfortable and at ease.
She’s 5″4 and is 60kg, curvy girl.
She’s smart.
She’s in medical school.
She cooks very well, her food is to die for, amazing
Would you ask this girl out? Or would you be afraid to?
P.S. This girl has NEVER been asked out before. Ever. She has known guys liked her in secret, but no guy has ever come up to her and asked.
Why do you think this is so? I have no clue. My best friend. <3 But don't all guys want this kind of girl, and moan and complain about how girls are so slutty and stuff when there's a girl like THIS on the market and has NO takers???
Also, I forgot to add! She doesn't drink or smoke !! She's religious as well., but she's open-minded in the sense that she does party. AND also she's a dancer and a singer as well. Yea, I know, all-rounded.