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California – community property. My spouse of 35 years has spent over $400k of our money on his stamp collections. He has a safe in his den and I am not allowed to go in it. I have kept track of at least some of the expenses over the years (so I have the cost basis). As we are divorcing, he will not be declaring any of this as assets. Yes, he has done the work in deciding what to buy, but this has eatten up all our savings every year as he obsesses over his collection. His safe is locked. But he is going away for a few days. Who can I call that would make a trip to my house and let me show them the safe? He knows the local stamp dealers. I called one out of town and he acted like this was unethical. I can open the safe, but don’t understand how to value or list the millions of items in there. The lawyer just wants a list of assets and their market value. This doesn’t work in this case. Not only do I not have access to what is in the safe (except for these two days) but the stamps are in 70 books. If I don’t get their value now, this stuff will disappear soon to another location. Anyone know who I can call or alternative ways of valuing this kind of thing. No, it is not insured because they required him to list the items and he has refused. Hence, the fire proof and water proof huge safe.

Been married for 40 years. Spouse was in military for 27 years, I was there for all 27. SBP elected. We are now 62, 64. I want to get away but have been told I must stay. If I leave, I leave with nothing and adult kids will get nothing. I am tired of the threats. I want the last phase of my life to be good. I am on medicare disability (from an accident) and tricare for the drugs. 1) I understand that if I leave, I can keep disability and tricare for life as long as I don’t remarry. But husband says I cannot even date as it would be considered same as marriage. What are the written regulations. 2) I live in community property state and should get 50/50. But he says if I leave, the first to go looses out. Does that really matter? 3) When I bring the issue up, he gets very angry, the humiliation would be too much for him. I fear about what this means. I plan to stay in the area because my children are here and it would be impossible to keep my new whereabouts a secret. What do others do? 4) am I entitled to a military lawyer? If so, how do I access one about this without his knowledge? 5) He has hidden assets in a safe for the majority of marriage. Probably 50% of our assets are hidden there. I know how much was paid for these assets because I have kept the records for the last 20 years. But the market value must be much more. If I mention divorce, these assets will just disappear. Will the record I have of the payments for these assets be of any value in distribution of assets. Excuse me for thinking of money, money, but I am disabled and my children deserve some compensation for the treatment they also received. If anyone can answer, I would appreciate it.

I am looking for a non-religious affiliated Divorce Support Group in the Milwaukee area. A group focused on a younger crowd (20s) without children would be ideal but any “non-churchy” group would be fine.