Posted on 22 April 2012. Tags: best friend, best friends, friendship, girlfriend, Girlfriends, horrible experiences, host mom, marcel, Parents, relationship
Ok, so I’m a junior in high school, a guy, and 17. And I’ve really never been the sort of person to affiliate myself with exchanged students, but I met a German exchanged student at the beginning of this year, his name is Marcel. We literally clicked, and started becoming best friends very fast. Me and him literally did everything together and we would stay at eachothers houses every single weekend, literally. It was so much fun. I’ve had horrible experiences with losing people in my life, all of my other best friends have literally died. And I’ve never had a friendship as great as this one. We continued to grow closer, and I remember all the time he would tell me he gets in fights with his host mom and stuff. Then one day at the beginning of February, he got in a huge fight with her. And so he decided to find a different family. He couldn’t find one. And then I thought, it would be so cool of he lived me. Just my best friend, we’d be like brothers. And so he moved in with me in February. He was soooooo excited and so was I! And we thought it was the coolest thing when he moved in. We hung out every day, talked non stop late into the nights, had our girlfriends over and backed eachother up so we wouldn’t get in trouble with my parents, even though I don’t like his girlfriend, and he doesn’t like mine, we support eachother. And then things got weird. He started hanging out with his girlfriend sooooo much. Literally everyday he would bring her over. And they’re relationship grew. But I lost my girlfriend. And so then I started feeling left out and that he didn’t like to hang out with me as much anymore. It made me feel horrrrible. I tried to tell him they hang out too much and he just got mad at me. And his girlfriend’s friends thought the same too. Things just started changing, he became more short with me, and didn’t want to do anything but sit in our room. I didn’t get it. He used to be so much more excited and pumped to go to parties with me or play video games etc. I didn’t know what I did wrong. Anyways, his parents visited from Germany last week and they stayed in a house near my house. And me and my family got to meet them and stuff. And while his parents were here, his girlfriend randomly and viciously dumped him. Out of nowhere. Because she was talking to some other guy. And so he got into an extremely bad mood for a long time. He slowly talked to her, and they’re kinda together right now, but not dating. She’s a piece of **** and it makes me mad she could make him so depressed like that. And he didn’t believe me when I told him that she was talking to some other guy. He ALWAYS trusted me, and we told eachother everything. But I had been hiding a secret. I keep getting fevers and night sweats and joint pains and infections. So I brought myself to get some blood work, and the hospital believed to see leukemia. I was devastated because so many people in my life have died from cancer. I didn’t know what to do, so I just went and told him looking for support, just like I supported him through his tough break up. He was in shock at first, but then he started saying that I’m putting pressure on him, and that it shouldn’t begin responsibility to babysit him or something? All I wanted was a shoulder to lean on. And this just made me more angry, and the night I told him me and him were going to a party. He decides to bring that stupid girl. I didn’t want to party at all. I just wanted to go home and talk to him. But he didn’t care. He wanted to hang out with that no good whore and not support his friend. It pissed me off. I just pretended that the cancer wasn’t bothering me anymore because he was just getting mad and I didn’t know what I did. Did I do something wrong? I thought me and him were so close. We’re always talking or doing something fun. He thought it was ok. And then he flat out ditched me and took that girl with him somewhere and left be bawling my eyes out thinking I was going to die. After all that, he began hanging out with this other kid I don’t like, he doesn’t want to do anything fun with me, he just wants to do homework. I only have a limited time left with him before he leaves. I am visiting him in Germany next year, but I won’t get to see my best friend for a long time. I just want things to be fun again, and for him to actually like talking and hanging out with me. So I need help, do you think what he did was just a little messed up:/? And I tried confronting him about hanging out with that other kid but he’s still going to. I want my best fiend back to how he used to be. I miss him. Do you have any advice on what I should do? He’s sleeping as I’m typing this, which shows how much interest he has in having fun. It’s Friday..please just tell me how to talk to him to get him back. I’ve never been this close to a friend and he’s like my brother. Sorry
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Posted on 04 March 2012. Tags: boy friends, girlfriend, girls, Intelligent, kind, message, outcast, sophomore, way
I’m a sophomore and I still haven’t had a girlfriend in high school. There’s a bunch of girls that like me but they are all either gang affiliated, too nerdy, or too annoying. Anyways, I saw this girl I really liked but I don’t talk to her. In the end I couldn’t find a way to get to the girl so I sent her a message through chat and she said that she didn’t know me…….Anyways, she knew who I was but just kind of rejected me. I’m cool with friends even though I’m smart and still try to fit with everyone instead of being an outcast. Why is it that the girls that I want always reject me? Shes had a couple of boy friends and she dumped them all. Is this girl stuck up? Shes pretty, but I wouldn’t consider her too popular. Or is it because she knows I’m smart and involved in school?
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Posted on 04 December 2011. Tags: Depression, DOCTOR, enjoying life, everything, fun, fun things, girlfriend, Meaningless, niche, professional life, social anxiety, teenager, Work
Hi, people. I’d like to ask you a question:
What would you do if you feel like living is meaningless?
I mean, I feel like time is passing around me, and I’m here “standing quite still”, staring at it pass right through my eyes.
I may have depression, social anxiety (sociophobia), so I’m not good in talking to people, nor I can’t.
I don’t know what I like doing anymore, I’m always bored and tired.
I want to do things, but I don’t know what… It’s like everything I used to like now seem useless.
I’m a teenager. At the end of next year, I’ll try entering in a college. So I have only to the next year to do something “funny” before the “professional life” will actually begin.
I’m programming myself to change, I’m trying to change into someone who enjoys life.
I try enjoying life, but what is it? What’s enjoy life, what’s “Carpe Dien?” (seize the day)…
How can I enjoy something if I don’t know my likes and dislikes?
I feel numb… time is passing but I don’t feel it, I think I don’t feel nothing anymore…
I’m like a nobody occupying a niche… In school some people try talking to me… Since I got really “depressed” (about 2 years ago) I got antisocial and scared to talk to people. I had only one friend, and now he is away from me. I lost all my friends.
Now I’m trying to get them back, talk to people, but it’s really tough, and even doing that, I still I feel numb, and worthless, useless…
I have one last year in normal school, before study become work, and work becomes a reality, and “fun things” become “teenager silly stuffs, unacceptable to your age”.
I’ve never had a girlfriend, or even something similar.
I don’t know what is living…
I think for me it doesn’t matter if I’m alive or dead…
In any case, I feel like I’m a dead who is somehow living…
I began trying to change myself since a month ago. I got sick of all this, so since then I’m trying to do things I was scared to do before. Which means, get back my friends, talk to them, even though a Hi, and other few, small challenges but that’s not the point.
I try finding things that interest me, but I don’t know exactly how. So far I haven’t find a clue…
The only thing I actually enjoy doing is listening to musics from all over the world in many languages. Right now I’m listening to russian. So, I study languages as well, but I turned it into “work”, I got too worried about the work life, and so I found myself studying not more because it was fun, but because I had to, so I got bored , burned-out about it too, except the musics.
I feel after all, I’ll not even get a job, so… I’m destined to die all alone without having actually lived? I think this is my biggest fear… though I realize it happens everyday…
I see people who seems to be happy… traveling around the world, knowing new people, doing whatever they want to…
Why can’t I?
*** What would you do in such situation? ***
Please, please, don’t tell me “go to a doctor/counselor/therapy/talk to someone”, killing myself or anything similar, really.
Just try imagining yourself in such case, and if possible, try answering me by what would you do.
Just to be clear:
– I’m not suicidal, I don’t want, never tried and never will try to killing myself;
– I won’t go a doctor;
– I just want to find a meaning on life….
*Forgive my wrong english, my native language isn’t it.
Thanks for reading/answering.
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Posted on 27 October 2011. Tags: 3 years, amp, animal lovers, animals, boyfriend, girlfriend, idea, Jobs, love, matching tattoos, pawprint, way
so my boyfriend and i want to get matching tattoos. we have been dating for almost 3 years and we thought it was a good idea. Like a different way to express our love.. We are both big animal lovers and our jobs both have something to do with animals, but we dont know what to get..I thought if we each got one small pawprint in the same place that would be cute..But idk. Any good ideas? Please let it be affiliated with animals.
thanks lovies!♥
(:
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Posted on 15 May 2011. Tags: amount of time, anger, Cheated, couple, day at a time, girlfriend, girls, guilt, guy, having sex, honest answers, multiple times, one day at a time, sex, son
Im going to be honest I have not been the good guy but what i need is honest answers. Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 9 years and even though i love her i have cheated throughout these years a lot. We have a son together who is now two. Couple of months ago she admitted to having sex with someone else out of anger (after once again catching me affiliating with a girl I cheated on her with multiple times) . After realizing now after all this time that i don’t want to lose her and i want to settle down, move in together and raise our son I’ve become insecure. Im always thinking now why isn’t she texting me back, why hasn’t she called me in X amount of time, where is she? etc etc… It’s weird because when i was cheating i didn’t think of ANY of this. I didn’t care didn’t even want to be on the phone with her for more than 1 minute.This is due to me talking to various girls and not caring, but now that im focused just on her its hard. I think my problem is because I know ALL the stuff I’ve done behind her back(which is A LOT) and i’m afraid now im going to be played. She assures me that she loves me and wants to marry me too but i think its my own guilt that’s playing me right now. What do I do? just take it one day at a time? learn to trust? I’m really trying to get my act together PLEASE HELP
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Posted on 14 May 2011. Tags: april, condoms, girlfriend, may 1, pregnancy, sex, stomach ache, Water, yesterday
Ok my girlfriend had an awkward period that lasted 12 days. That ended on april 30 and we had sex on may 1. Yesterday may 12 she had a stomach ache that didn’t last long. And now today may 13 she sees a little blood affiliated with some cramping. What is up? We also used condoms, and filled it water after use to find there was no tear or hole in them.
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