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Well last year a gang member had it out for me, he thought I was snitching ( I honestly don’t know if I snitched ). He is maybe a teenager and I think he wants to get at me, i still absolutely fear for my safety as well for others. I lived in fear and couldn’t eat or have things up loud, I wouldn’t go outside, I deactivated my Facebook and went ghost on everyone. I think they have my phone number and I won’t even answer to an unknown caller. The guy knew where I lived and he rode pass there once. It’s been a year since I saw him or anyone affiliated with him. It all started at school, a fight, I believe. He thinks I snitched! I’m still worried, I have superstitions I do so nothing bad happens, I don’t go outside and do sports anymore. He was friends with my brother, but I don’t think they are good friends, I’m really worried still after one year. I was never in a gang but I knew people who were, I worked with the kids brother in class sometimes. What should I do? I’m 18 now and out of school, I think he is maybe 16. What can I do?? I don’t want anything bad to happen to my family. I pray to lord to protect us and I thank him for that.

So, if a girl says you are “good friends” and tells that to her friends when they ask how you two are affiliated but then pays more attention to her apparently not so good friends (e.g talking to, looking at, joking about with ect) although always speaks to you first over Skype…
What does this mean? She likes you, she doesn’t like you? What?

I am a twenty year old girl and truly understand now why people say “Enjoy being a kid.” The older you get you realize how truly selfish, envious, and cruel people can be. Dealing with an emotionally abusive ex showed me how people have absolutely no sympathy, find you annoying, and then ditch you to be friends with that guy.
Growing up truly sucks – and during the last two years I have been trying to find myself again. I thought I’d have a great support team of friends who’d distract me. People have this mentality “Sucks for you, Glad it’s not me.” If I didn’t see it, I don’t believe it, your overdramatic.” Over this time I’ve lost SO many friends. I am glad I got rid of the “fake” friends .. but its truly left me with noone. I used to be a very pretty popular girl – and after these experiences it’s made me insecure.
I’ve tried to stay a good person – I don’t just stay friends with someone after they hurt me because I am afraid of being alone. I don’t just drink or hook up with guys to feel “accepted” and not lonely. I thought the worst of this was high school – but even in early twenties people are just so cruel.
I feel somewhat trapped between my past, present, and future. I so desperately want to fix this – but you can’t force friendship nor relationship. I try to meet new people and stay away from people in my past – but everyone still knows everyone. I feel so lonely because I just don’t have my own niche. I don’t have people that I know are 100% there for me – and I look around and it seems everyone has their own security of good friends and relationships.
I know I am only twenty but I feel so bombarded and stressed. I don’t want to feel so sad all the time. I am so tired of people telling me to “get over it.” – when in reality I don’t see any helping hands of goodness. I never realized how early adulthood is truly so hard 🙁 I can’t help but feel I will always be sad and never return to that confident person I was.
Any advice?

Very long story, summed up.
So a few years ago a friend of mine and his brother had some rough family life and ended up living with us. Lets call them K and J. At the time J was still a minor (a month away from being 18) so for a while he was in the social services thingy and they determined it best for him to live with us since his brother (K) was already with us, plus he could go to the same school and all. AFter he lived with us for about 10 or so days we went to an outing out of town that we were all a part of. J hadn’t been affiliated with the group because his mom was nuts (that’s part of the family issues of theirs). For no reason during the outing J accused my dad of molesting him. It def never happened-I was there. But there was a police investigation and no charges were ever filed. But it was a living hell for a long time. That was all 3 years ago.
Here’s my dillema. If I have a single enemy in the world it would be J, and I think I’m justified in feeling that way. A good friend of mine (call her S) is now dating J. Her and J were friends years ago in high school and he treated her like crap and they bounced between being friends and hating each other. She knows about how he lied about that stuff 3 years ago. My and S are good friends but we havent talked, texted, or anything since she told me she was dating him. I really think that I miss her in my life. But I kind of feel betrayed. It’s messing with me. what should I do? please help.

What is it with guys who compliment you, say you’re gorgeous, say they think you’re an amazing person – but don’t want to be romantically affiliated with you? I’ve liked a guy for a while and we’re good friends, we flirt a lot but it’s like I’m just sort of a fun thing for him. No, we’re not friends with benefits at all…
I seem to have trouble attracting a guy who truly wants to be with me. There have been many guys who have either tried to look for more with me (I always turn those down, I’m not easy) or have said they think I’m amazing or beautiful, but none ask me out.
This trend is worrying me – like I’m impossible to love. Can any one help me out? (And please don’t say I must be easy because I’m not. I’m actually a virgin – anytime I’ve been near having sex has been too early in a relationship (ie one night stands) and I’m not down with that.
Does anyone know what the issue is?! Am I just one of those unlucky-in-love types? People may suggest it’s something to do with me, but doesn’t anyone have faults? Even the most horrible person I know can seem to get dates.

Alright, so since yesterday, I have just been feeling very insecure and crappy. There are just a lot of things culminating. FYI: I a freshman in college.
-One of my friends got really drunk and had to be sent to the hospital….this is one of my good friends, and she is really upset that she did this, but it just makes me nervous because I really like this group of people, and now she did this
-I am not sure I like another group of friends that much, but I really want to
-My best friend from high school has found her niche and her close group of friends that she really likes, and I just am wondering why I haven’t. I still sometimes quesiton my friendships, I just don’t know how much of a bad thing that is….I guess I am just a little bit jealous of her?
-I have never been in a relationship, gone on a date, or even kissed a boy. For that matter I don’t think any guy has every been attracted to me
-Everytime there is a guy I like, something just goes wrong so that it doesn’t work out.
So I am a very outgoing person, and I generally am happy. I am a talker, and people tend to like me. I am not ugly (not ridiculously pretty). I work hard, and I have a strong set of morals-I try to be the best person I can be. I don’t feel the need to be mean to others, but if someone is outwardly mean to me, I don’t pretend to have time for them/pretend to care about them (this isn’t often). I have 2 really really close friends at home, and my family is very close. I have never felt this insecure before, I was always incredibly happy with my life in high school.
In regards to the boys- I have lots of guy friends, just no one that seem interested in more. I have been told that there is nothing necessarily wrong with me, just that I don’t come off as “available”. I have no clue how to fix this. I just don’t treat boys any differently than I do girls. The conversation is different, but I don’t act differently. Also, in college, I think lot’s of people just want hook-ups, and I am not interested in that. I also refuse for my first kiss to be at a party or antything.
So I guess my questions are:
-What do I do about my friends situation?
-What do I do about the boys situation?