Affiliate Marketing Secrets

Sorry if this is a long read.
I met these girls in one of my classes when I helped them out with studying for a test, since they were freaking out. After that, they have started talking to me quite a bit. I did not mind because it was nice talking to cheerful people and I wanted to be respectful. I thought that they could use a guy friend to have casual conversations with, share a few laughs, or get help with issues.
However, my guy friends noticed this for some reason and approached me, asking why I would be “affiliated with ugly girls”. I did not approve of them talking about them behind their backs like that, but they just teased me even more. I did not understand this because they were really geeky guys that rarely talked to girls of any sort. This has been going on for a couple weeks now- they are still calling those girls ugly and harassing me for talking to them. I could care less if they teased me, but it crossed the line when they bad-mouthed those girls like that. I will admit that they were not the most attractive girls in the class, but I feel that they have no right to judge them like that. I think that every girl is beautiful in their own way. However, I have considered cutting off all contact with them to keep my friends from bothering me about it. I have not done it yet because I want to be more considerate to the girls.
I feel like cursing them tomorrow since they are getting on my nerves. What do you think I should do? Should I just ignore the girls now?

As a potential mate. I even spoke to one of my guy friends asked him to call him and he told me that my boyfriend told him he wants space from me (Even though my boyfriend never said that to me..), I also asked well is he seeking out other potential partners, he has me blocked on facebook? (I talked to him about that he said he didn’t want to unblock me and that its no big deal) My friends’ answer was “Well would you blame him?” (for seeking out new partner.?) My reply was…. Well I was dumbfounded, I thought in no way should I expect him to be seeking out another partner? My friend seemed to know what hes talking about.
I have friended that person on another account who is facebook friends with my partner. She seems to be kinda sheltered from the reality of deep emotional human life. Seems to be trying to get my partners’ attention (I tryed to friend my partner too from another account he did not take the request..) but I see no comments from him on her page.
I considered I might just be fearful as it is some kinda set up… although the girl has some partner who they may or may not be serious about, they are both mexican.
It looks like shes making a secret relationship and it looks like my partner is being sold on a black market or something.. its very strange. I contacted my partners’ sister to help me she did not accept and neither do his parents. He lives with them.
If he really is pursuing her? I am obviously really stupid, and have been trying for this guy for 4 years now just to get dumped for some little ugly, talentless skank. What else should I do in terms of trying to get information. His sister just moved back to town. In fact I decided to move far far away just to stay away from his family and his sister. I stopped calling when his sister was around and basically gave up on everything but hoping on some kind of future with him.

I am self employed and I must admit I sometimes avoid any topics that have to deal with what I do for a living (successful self employed programmer and online marketing). Sometimes someone else brings it up though…. like today innocently my friend introduced me to one of her guy friends and everything was cool. Then later she mentioned to him that I run a successful online business and such, then suddenly the guy is like “wow man I been trying to do that I will get your email and phone number from your friend and we can talk!”.
I get that a lot and I find it annoying that when someone finds out what I do, they expect me to reveal all of my secrets and help them become successful for free? No one helped me at all, I learned from losing money, coming up with new ideas, and spending a lot of time and research to become successful. No one just told me all of the secrets and made me make more money. When I meet someone with a good job I never ask for free help, I just think it is rude. Do you consider this normal?

Alright, so since yesterday, I have just been feeling very insecure and crappy. There are just a lot of things culminating. FYI: I a freshman in college.
-One of my friends got really drunk and had to be sent to the hospital….this is one of my good friends, and she is really upset that she did this, but it just makes me nervous because I really like this group of people, and now she did this
-I am not sure I like another group of friends that much, but I really want to
-My best friend from high school has found her niche and her close group of friends that she really likes, and I just am wondering why I haven’t. I still sometimes quesiton my friendships, I just don’t know how much of a bad thing that is….I guess I am just a little bit jealous of her?
-I have never been in a relationship, gone on a date, or even kissed a boy. For that matter I don’t think any guy has every been attracted to me
-Everytime there is a guy I like, something just goes wrong so that it doesn’t work out.
So I am a very outgoing person, and I generally am happy. I am a talker, and people tend to like me. I am not ugly (not ridiculously pretty). I work hard, and I have a strong set of morals-I try to be the best person I can be. I don’t feel the need to be mean to others, but if someone is outwardly mean to me, I don’t pretend to have time for them/pretend to care about them (this isn’t often). I have 2 really really close friends at home, and my family is very close. I have never felt this insecure before, I was always incredibly happy with my life in high school.
In regards to the boys- I have lots of guy friends, just no one that seem interested in more. I have been told that there is nothing necessarily wrong with me, just that I don’t come off as “available”. I have no clue how to fix this. I just don’t treat boys any differently than I do girls. The conversation is different, but I don’t act differently. Also, in college, I think lot’s of people just want hook-ups, and I am not interested in that. I also refuse for my first kiss to be at a party or antything.
So I guess my questions are:
-What do I do about my friends situation?
-What do I do about the boys situation?