Posted on 28 January 2011. Tags: asian guy, asian guys, asians, boyfriend, City, girlfriend, guy, laugh, niche, noooooooooo, preference, tuff, watching tv, way
I live in another city than my boyfriend because I moved away from my home to attend university. I moved before I started dating him, and before we really even knew each other well for that matter. I go back almost every weekend and stay with him, and he comes in to see me once during the week. We only live an hour a way so it’s not that far away, and seeing one another three days a week is pretty good. But the thing is before we were dating I turned him down for a long while because I have a preference for Asian guys, and I was honest with him about this when I turned him down. I don’t know it seemed like a better way of doing things. ” It’s not that you’re not a good guy, or that you’re not attractive, it’s just that you don’t really fit into my niche or so to speak”. But he was nice enough to me, and persistent enough to win me over in the end, what can I say.
But the thing is, I think it still stuck with him and well…. now he’s a bit paranoid. It started jokingly with us watching TV, and whenever an Asian guy would pop up he’d be like. “Oh no! You can’t watch this! You’ll realize you like Asians better and run off on me lol” and we’d laugh, and I’d be like “oh yeah, just look at him (like an 80 year old guy), solely based on the fact that he’s Asian I find him attractive!” he’d be like “NOOOOOOOOOO!” and we laughed and it was over. And paired with that he found out….how do I say this, my drive is quite high, and I enjoy what we do together, and I like to enjoy it a lot. So for whatever reason that got him thinking that I have had lots of partners before….which is a little insulting considering I had told him that I had only ever had one boyfriend before, and it was for like 1 year, which is true.
So with that, and a little tuff we got into after he kinda implied I was heavy jokingly (which I’m not -.-), I said that his tackle was small to make a point. (A boyfriend telling his girlfriend she’s fat is like a girlfriend telling her boyfriend his junk is small). I clearly said that that was the point and that’s not what I actually think, we apologized to one another and I thought it was over. But now he’s got it in his head that.
A: I don’t find him attractive
B: I’m crazy horny all the time
C: I think his junk is too small
To finally, he has it in his head that I have an F buddy in the city to keep me while he’s away….honestly. Facepalm worthy? Yes, yes I think so.
I never thought that he was so self conscious, but I guess it makes sense. He is a slim guy who’s friend’s beat on him all the time cause he’s not as built, and make fun of him for it. And whenever he gets drunk he always talks about how happy he is that I gave him a chance, and how I’m too good for him, and how beautiful I am and all this junk. I don’t think that he 100% believes it, but it’s a “joke” that comes out a little too much.
I tried to shake it out of his head with sarcasm by saying DRENCHING WITH SARCASM “OH YEAH! Gonna go back to my apartment and play with the stash of random naked men I keep hidden around my house, that you’ve never noticed before. OH YEAH! BIG BLACK MEN! ASIAN MEN! You name it!” I couldn’t have been more sarcastic, but even though I don’t think he fully 100% thinks I’m cheating on him, It still hurts that’s it’s even in the back of his mind. And it’s all so stupid ’cause he’s the one that even started the replacement partner crap. He would tease me about me being his “weekend girlfriend” and how the “others” are going to be jealous. I don’t take it seriously, why does he?
What should I do? Just sitting down with him and straight up saying IM NOT CHEATING ON YOU, seems dumb over something that itself is so dumb.
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Posted on 18 January 2011. Tags: Entertaining, excuse, guy, hell, middle age, miz, niche, randy orton, television, Thinks, Wwe
It’s sad that despite all the Miz’s, Randy Orton’s, and Cena’s that a middle-age woman who yells “Excuse Me!” is more entertaining than 6’2″ish, 250 pound men. Hell I could probably be an interesting character who garners attention because I’m this small 5’6″ 136 pound young guy who can be weird and quirky, and since that would obviously make me stand out amongst all those big string men I could carve out my own niche.
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Posted on 16 January 2011. Tags: attractiveness, conversations, fear, guy, Match, Mentor, mentor program, niche interests, Pairs, problem, professional events, Someone, spending time, temperament, university
I’m 20 years old and a 3rd year University student in FL. I’m involved in a mentor program for my major, and was paired with a 25 year old guy, who I’m really starting to like 🙂
The age difference is no problem for me. I’ve always liked guys who are a few years older, and I’m mature for my age. It seems like a good match. We are both interested in the same things (he graduated from my program a few years ago) although we both have different niche interests.
He is really sweet, very attractive, and oddly quirky. I find him so attractive, but he’s not the kind of guy that all the girls are chasing. I think he likes me too. I’d say we are similarly matched in attractiveness, temperament, and other areas. I really enjoy spending time with him, and always enjoy our conversations. He is so cute, and I can tell he gets nervous sometimes when we talk… I know this might not have anything to do with him liking me, but I like to hope so anyway 😉 I’m really falling for him.
Mentor pairs are not allowed to date while the program is in session (it runs through May) and that’s fine. Neither of us would do anything against this rule, we are both very professional. My fear is that the program will end and we will just remain professional contacts within each others network. I think we could be more than that (and hope we can be!)
I think that (if he knew I liked him) he would make a move, ask me to hang out, etc. aside from professional events we attend together. I think he’s afraid I’d turn him down, or that I’d think he’s too old, etc.
MY QUESTION: How can I subtly let him know I’m interested? I obviously won’t do anything to break rules of the program, but I think I need to plant the seed that I like him before the program ends. The whole relationship is a little awkward because it’s such a professional setting, yet we are both young (and I like to hope) attracted to each other.
How can I test the waters to see if he’s interested in anything more, yet not make things awkward if he doesn’t want anything more from this? I’m one of those girls who always has a little fear that he won’t like me.. I just don’t want it to be awkward if he’s not interested. On the other hand, what if he is interested and we miss out on something great?
And yes—He’s 100% single.
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Posted on 12 January 2011. Tags: ayn rand, ayn rand book, Barack, bill schultz, cbs news, communist manifesto, greg gutfeld, guy, Handled, jared lee, john boehner, karl marx, pointing fingers, Show, Situation
Not many people I can say have handled this well. From what info I have I have come up with a few decent people who have handled this situation better than others:
*Barack Obama(focused solely on the victims all weekend and didn’t politicize it)
*John Boehner(gave a nice speech Sunday morning also focusing only on the victims and nothing more)
*Elliot Spitzer(I never thought I would congratulate this guy for anything but he reported it fairly on his show last night) who pointed out on his show that the man’s favorite books ranged from Karl Marx’s Communist Manifesto to Mein Kampf making it more difficult to actually affiliate him with a party
*Stephanie Condon, a journalist for CBS News, who reported the man was a registered independent and also didn’t polarize the situation( http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-2… )
*CNN in general for reporting this as fairly as they could and not just Eliot Spitzer(http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/201…
* Greg Gutfeld & Bill Schultz & Andy Levy for not pointing fingers and also reporting it fairly(and Gutfeld added on to the books Spitzer listed by adding an Ayn Rand book which really makes this confusing) and saying that the man’s attacks were not politically motivated from what info he has
I have seen a lot of disgusting rhetoric from both sides trying to capitalize on this tragedy. Now, I am not saying the people I listed have not done this, in fact I could be wrong in my judgments and I know there are people I am missing(hence why I asked this), but from what info I have I have drawn this conclusion and would like to add on to it.
Look what this guy posted on his myspace by the way:http://www.examiner.com/us-headlines-in-…
Anyways, who has handled this well?
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Posted on 10 January 2011. Tags: condolences, guy, hell, humanity, idea, issue, nuts, political agenda, political game, time and place, Tragedy
I was reading an article about the shooting and came across comments that, instead of sending condolences, decided to make it a political game. Did you forget that people died in this shooting? Where the hell is your sense of humanity? For once, can y’all set your ******* politics aside and agree that it was tragic for those involved? You have no idea what this guy was affiliated with, or if he was at all. He was obviously nuts and that’s all there is to it.
You people who made this into a political issue are ******* sick. There’s a time and place for those things and this was not one of them. So why bring in your political agenda into a tragedy?
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Posted on 26 December 2010. Tags: bastard, camshow, dating sites, dating website, fool, guy, hot woman, msn, prey, sexy girl, sexy guy, strategy, Website
Ewhoring is the strategy of acting or pretending to be for example sexy girl or even a sexy guy (mainly for gay dating sites) to make money by directing people to join a dating website you are affiliated with.
A good example is using fake pictures in a fake ad pretending to be a hot woman, then pick a prey from one of the hundreds of mails you will receive, then deceive this fool into thinking you will meet him and make all his dreams come true. Have him give you a camshow just so you can laugh while he’s in his underpants jerking and then persuade him to sign up — then block the bastard from your msn!!!
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