Posted on 10 April 2012. Tags: bed, coffee table, cost of food, food power, food stamps, hoarding food, Home, honey buns, house, jewelry box, job, king sized bed, parent, part time job, part time jobs
My parent was fired from her job 7 years ago. She worked little part time jobs at pubs, used up her savings, and borrowed money from anyone she could to support herself for a few years before she was eventually evicted and had to move in with some friends. About a year ago she started having trouble with her friends because she wouldn’t/couldn’t get anything more than a part time job earning barely more than $3.50 per hour + tips and not being able to pay her share of the bills. She was kicked out about 4 months ago and since I would not allow my mother to be homeless she moved in with us. We paid nearly $600 to have her belongings moved to storage out here and have been paying $150 per month for storage, $70 for her car insurance, not to mention the cost of food, power, and water since our bills have gone up. We have been barely getting by since she moved in and can barely afford to put any groceries into the house. Lets put it this way, our dogs are eating better than we are. I tried to make things a little less comfortable for her to encourage her wanting to get out on her own but it backfired. I started to buy less groceries (not that we could really afford them anyways but) and buy a few things for my fiancee and I to eat for lunch that I knew she did not like and would not eat but to solve that problem she went out and got food stamps and while she is putting a little bit of food in the kitchen I’ve noticed wrappers for things like honey buns and things like that in the trash can or on the coffee table that I know we didn’t buy but there is no box in sight which leads me to believe she is hoarding food in her room! (I don’t know for a fact but I’m not going into that over stuffed room to save my life, you can barely walk through it! It’s not dirty like filled with week old garbage but its just a small bedroom that she has crammed to capacity with a king sized bed, 3 dressers, a jewelry box, 2 free standing closets and nightstands. But even with all that furniture she has baskets stacked with laundry and cardboard boxes stacked on half of her bed filled with junk like books and magazines and pure crap. Seriously I didn’t think you could even fit that much stuff into this little bed room but I am beginning to think she is a hoarder.)
Since she moved in we have noticed things moving around, are being told how and when to do things, food vanishing much faster than it should be, the constant bickering that I should have bought this brand of soda because it is $.03 cheaper even though it tastes like a dog’s backside and mostly the lack of privacy for example when I left for work today I closed my bedroom door but when I got home for lunch the door was open and I know my fiancee left at the same time as me and hasn’t been home since. I’ve lost access to my own computer and barely get to use my tv after work. I just want to run through the house screaming MINE MINE MINE like a child!!!
She used to do the dishes every day and help keep the house picked up but that is steadily declining as well. She hasn’t had a single interview in the 4 months that she has been here and I began to worry that she was not trying to find a job at all. The past few days I began looking at the history on my computer and it is littered with nothing but facebook and dating sites with a job posting here or there every week or so. This morning she left a craigslist job add on the browser but when I clicked back it goes directly to facebook.
My fiancee and I are getting married in a couple months and I recently got an offer to move into a company paid home but I can not take her with me nor do I want to! I told her about the offer and mentioned that when she gets a job I’d be willing to help her with her costs if she takes over the lease of the place we are in now until she is able to fully support herself since we are not able to move until she is working but she didn’t respond at all. She simply just shrugged her shoulders and began flipping channels on my tv.
My fiancee is at her wits end with this and I am at a loss. I have no idea what to do with this situation or how to deal with her moving my things about and acting like she owns the place. How can I get her off her butt and into a job?
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Posted on 04 April 2012. Tags: accountancy, association of chartered certified accountants, bachelor degree, bread winner, chartered certified accountants, frame body, Home, job, Maker, medium frame, oxford brookes university, thesis project, thesis research, volunteer work, Work
then enrolled with ACCA (the Association of Chartered Certified Accountants) Uk and passed 10 papers out of 14 in seven years. they have a program affiliated with Oxford Brookes university to award bachelor degree for those who pass 9 parts out of 14 by submitting thesis (research and analysis project). I had hope that even if I fail to do chartered accountancy I will be able to get bachelor degree in accountancy and will continue with job and later masters in accountancy, but unfortunately I failed twice the thesis / project (each time paid Uk pound 115 fees) they allow three attempts and I have no hope that I will be even able to clear it in third attempt because I know I did my level best in two attempts. It appears they have quota to pass limited number of people. in the mean time I did one volunteer work and one paid intern ship for nine months only. at the age of 29 I am no where but groping in dark for my career. I need to find job, marry and settle but I am no where. I even don’t know whether I have interest in accounts, even don’t know I am interested in which field. I was below average student in school and all of my colleagues from school have found work and career. There is not doubt I had learning difficulties in school as well. I may say that I would be ranked last in the class. When attempting professional level accountancy papers I either fail to comprehend the data given and if I comprehend what is required to do I fall short of time. My other positive things is that I am good looking, good health, medium frame body, height 5’3″. I sat for SAT and secured 1100 marks (2003) toefl 100 internet based gave IELTS and got 6.5 band Please tell me what should I do. some time I think that if I marry a girl who is nicely employed and I became home maker (taking reverse role from traditional role of male bread winner and women home maker). Where to go from here. Shall highly appreciate your advise.PLEASE PLEASE
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Posted on 21 March 2012. Tags: 17 years, bissness, Codeing, createw, deticated, flash java, Game, html flash, job, rabit, rpg game, speller, untill, web
im looking for people who can advertise, manage, code in php, html, flash, java, ext…
i know very little in codeing and need help to createw my game for the web. im only 17 years old and i have come up with a brilient plan for a game.( of course i need to keep all of it secret untill/unless i can trust you to help me) i willneed a people who can work well with others and are up for new ideas, people who dont mind working for volenteer untill we can get the bissness up and running and if i see that we have gotten to a good point in the creation of the game i will hire more people but thats a while away, i will take care of all logo and most advertisment things but i need someone whom i can trust to help me create the game it self and of course we would create the code together, and if the game becomes complete i will wait for the market to want it the relese it to the public and if it gets hit hard then i will guerantee that all of whom helped me will get paid! i will need comfermation for who you are so i can do background cheacks(for trust, since i dont need my ideas stolen and recreated better and i also dont need some hacker hacking me either). signing for copywrights will come at a later time but for now if i can trust you and you respect me then your in for an amazing ride and you will love it,
Thanks
Byron C. Wade
if your interested and have more questiions email me at
Lucky_FN_Rabit@yahoo.com
Thanks again hope to get some deticated ppl
P.S. i know im a horrable speller
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Posted on 18 March 2012. Tags: Affiliated, Bible, catholics, church, church of rome, handful, job, mine, priest
I get told that this is the priest job
I only know a handful of Catholics(friends of mine) that actualy read bible
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Posted on 05 March 2012. Tags: air force bmt, air traffic control, asvab, ATC, Bmt, civilian job market, cross train, cross training, job, meps, post, secret security clearance, top secret security clearance, uncorrected vision, vision
I enlisted in the Air Force last July and I’m currently finishing my senior year of high school before leaving for BMT in August. I got a 93 on the ASVAB and I chose command post as my job. I originally wanted air traffic control, however my uncorrected vision was not good enough. My plan is to get lasik to improve my uncorrected vision and hopefully cross train into ATC. My recruiter, who has been beyond helpful in this whole process, says that this shouldn’t be a problem, and the head Air Force lady at the MEPS seemed to think it was highly likely as well. Now that you know the situation, my questions are:
1. What are the chances that I am successful in cross training into ATC from CP?
2. Does anyone know anything about the command post job? I’ve heard mixed reviews and I’m looking for more.
3. I want to make a career out of the Air Force, but I’m undecided about an original four or six year enlistment. Any opinions on that?
4. The command post job comes with top secret security clearance, how valuable is this in the civilian job market?
My recruiter has answered these questions for me, however I’m just looking for a few more opinions on them. Any other information you think is important is also greatly appreciated. Thanks for the help!
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Posted on 05 March 2012. Tags: cubicle, huge room, humidifier, job, niche, Open, sense
I work in a large office and have my own cubicle there (no windows). The office is air conditioned, but the air gets very dry, so my eyes are always red and hurt badly by the end of the day. The quality of air also makes my nose runny. I wonder if I can buy a humidifier and keep it in my cubicle? Will it help me, or it doesn’t make any sense since the office is huge and it won’t do it’s job in keeping the air humidified around me? My cubicle is in a small niche, so I do have 3 walls. But the entrance to my niche leads to a huge room… I can’t ask my employer to put me in another cubicle or install an expensive humidifying system for the office… Are there any solutions?
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