Posted on 08 May 2012. Tags: Dreams, full time job, Good, good wife, guilt, having a baby, job, Life, mother and wife, niche, school, Talent, term boyfriend
I feel enormous guilt over the fact that I haven’t found a particular talent or niche or whatever in life, that I just work hard at a full-time job but I’m not particularly passionate about it and am not also in school or pursuing something else. I realize that this is mostly because of other people and their expectations of me. All I really want, what I really dream about, is marrying my long-term boyfriend who I love very very dearly and can’t imagine being with anyone else, and having a baby together. He wants to get married too, we’ve talked about it, but for some reason hasn’t asked me. Is there something wrong with me for just wanting to marry him and have a family together, and to be the best mother and wife I can be? Is there something insufficient about that?
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Posted on 07 May 2012. Tags: Dreams, full time job, Good, good wife, guilt, having a baby, job, Life, mother and wife, niche, school, Talent, term boyfriend
I feel enormous guilt over the fact that I haven’t found a particular talent or niche or whatever in life, that I just work hard at a full-time job but I’m not particularly passionate about it and am not also in school or pursuing something else. I realize that this is mostly because of other people and their expectations of me. All I really want, what I really dream about, is marrying my long-term boyfriend who I love very very dearly and can’t imagine being with anyone else, and having a baby together. He wants to get married too, we’ve talked about it, but for some reason hasn’t asked me. Is there something wrong with me for just wanting to marry him and have a family together, and to be the best mother and wife I can be? Is there something insufficient about that?
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Posted on 06 May 2012. Tags: Dreams, full time job, Good, good wife, guilt, having a baby, job, Life, mother and wife, niche, school, Talent, term boyfriend
I feel enormous guilt over the fact that I haven’t found a particular talent or niche or whatever in life, that I just work hard at a full-time job but I’m not particularly passionate about it and am not also in school or pursuing something else. I realize that this is mostly because of other people and their expectations of me. All I really want, what I really dream about, is marrying my long-term boyfriend who I love very very dearly and can’t imagine being with anyone else, and having a baby together. He wants to get married too, we’ve talked about it, but for some reason hasn’t asked me. Is there something wrong with me for just wanting to marry him and have a family together, and to be the best mother and wife I can be? Is there something insufficient about that?
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Posted on 06 May 2012. Tags: Dreams, full time job, Good, good wife, guilt, having a baby, job, Life, mother and wife, niche, school, Talent, term boyfriend
I feel enormous guilt over the fact that I haven’t found a particular talent or niche or whatever in life, that I just work hard at a full-time job but I’m not particularly passionate about it and am not also in school or pursuing something else. I realize that this is mostly because of other people and their expectations of me. All I really want, what I really dream about, is marrying my long-term boyfriend who I love very very dearly and can’t imagine being with anyone else, and having a baby together. He wants to get married too, we’ve talked about it, but for some reason hasn’t asked me. Is there something wrong with me for just wanting to marry him and have a family together, and to be the best mother and wife I can be? Is there something insufficient about that?
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Posted on 03 February 2011. Tags: 3 years, alot, aspirations, auto body, autobody, Career, career path, Child, choosing a career, main source, mother and wife, semesters, Stop, Time, young mother
I’m a young mother and wife. I’ve been married for 2 years and we’re on our third now (guess you coulda figured that one out). Anyways, having a child young and getting married has really put a stop on alot of my aspirations. I’ve had to alter my career path alot and have missed out on a lot of opportunities I always thought I’d take. The thing is, I’m okay with that because I’m using the resources I have in my area and the time that I do have to carve a nice niche for myself by choosing a career I CAN have. Its killing me to study, work, go to school, and man the house as well as taking care of our child all the while. I’ve been trying to get through school for the past 3 years and my husband has been working an 8-5 job in the meantime. I’ve tried to get him into school with me but he’s been 2 semesters in which one he didn’t finish and the other he barely passed. Now, he wants to leave and move 7 hours away to get certified in same auto-body school for 2 years. If not that, he wants to move 4 hours away and do an 18 month program. This is heartbreaking to hear him say this stuff. Its like me and his child don’t even matter. It’s like he’s completely blind to how hard i’ve been working to get somewhere for the past 3 years. I don’t have the option to put my family on hold and take off to chase my dreams. I think if i’m sacrificing and making the best of it then he should have to too. It think this is incredibly selfish of him. He is our main source of income to as i’m with our daughter the time and we have no daycare. The thing is, there are other places in our area that offer certification in autobody but he wants to go to the best school he can find. I really just want to tell him to grow the heck up and take responsibility like a man. If he does leave us to go there, I am considering leaving him.
Any advice?
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