Posted on 02 July 2013. Tags: boyfriend, Find, Never, True, Will
When asking why you are still single, I would say that it’s best to look at the obstacles you are facing. Some people just can’t find someone because they are looking too hard. Others are looking with the right amount of effort, just the wrong place/venue. Others might have unrealistic expectations, that are put into place with good intentions, but have the flaw of being too high or narrow.
So, what kind of obstacles have you met in romance? Has it been that nobody sees you that way? Is it that the people who you are attracted to shun or ignore you? Are you forever in the “friend zone”? Do you hate the way you look? Maybe you just don’t fit in at the venue you have been looking. Maybe you need to find a place that is more in-line with your interests.
And that’s the best advice I can give.
I would say that the best way to increase your ability to find companionship is to find your niche. Throw yourself into the things you love. Get good at them. Master them. Join clubs focused on them. Get out, do fun things. Just meet people.
Don’t rely on the internet to find someone. I have a profile on a dating site, and yes I get dates from it. But it’s really more of an art than a science, and it took a LOT of trial and error. Getting out among people, and just being yourself is the best way.
It does not matter what body type you are. I have seen women of every body type in happy relationships. My ex was 420lbs, and would get asked out constantly by guys. In contrast, I know a girl who is cute, petite, fit and she can’t seem to get into a relationship. Nobody wants her. So don’t blame your looks, your weight, or your height. For every type of girl, there are guys who are into you.
As far as those activities I mentioned above go, they give you a time and a place to meet others who share your interests. Do it because you are into those things, and not because you want to “meet someone”. Another enthusiast just might take a liking to you.
In the end, it’s how well you’ve filled out, both emotionally and intellectually, that will attract the right people. If you were looking for a quick bang, you could probably put an ad on craigslist, and have a hundred offers by sunset. But you obviously aren’t after that, or you wouldn’t have posted this question.
Be yourself. Be the best, most awesome, dorky, awkward, artistic, nerdy, whatever, version of yourself. When you are solid in that foundation, you will have boys lining up to date you.
And that’s the best advice I can give.
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Posted on 10 June 2013. Tags: Guys, Never, Nice, Want, With
Basically I never want nice guys that treat me right! I always fall for total douche bags. I can’t see myself with someone nice that would treat me right. I’ve broken a lot of hearts and lost some really amazing guys. I also spend my time with people that don’t deserve me and everyone else thinks they’re total losers and jerks, and I worship them when they’re undeserving creeps. I only want people that don’t want me and its kind of sad. Why do I do this? Thanks.
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Posted on 20 April 2013. Tags: Blame, Islam, Leaders, Muslim, Never, Terrorism, Terrorists
4/19/13 http://www.weeklystandard.com/blogs/chec… President Says American Upbringing to Blame
“Any attempt to draw a connection between Chechnya and Tsarnaevs — if they are guilty — is futile. They were raised in the United States, and their attitudes and beliefs were formed there. It is necessary to seek the roots of this evil in America.”
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This is the Muslim leader who expressed this unbelievable justification for the murder of women:
-4/29/12 http://p.washingtontimes.com/news/2012/a… Washington Times, Chechnya: Chechen President Ramzan Kadyrov publicly announced that the dead women [found dead in forests] had “loose morals” and were rightfully shot by male relatives. He went on to describe women as the property of their husbands, and said their main role is to bear children.”
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Turkey’s Prime Minister Recep Erdagon said this about terrorism:
-12/09 Syrian Arab News Agency: “Islam means peace, and it cannot tolerate terrorism. We reject all attempts to link Islam with terrorism.”
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And yet Islam commands:
Quran 7:3: “Little do you remember My warning. How many towns have We destroyed as a raid by night? Our punishment took them suddenly while they slept for their afternoon rest. Our terror came to them; Our punishment overtook them.”
-Quran 8:12: Instill terror into the hearts of the unbelievers
-Quran 9:5: Fight and kill the disbelievers wherever you find them
-Muslim General Khalid ibn al-Walid’s (592-642AD): “It was thirst that made us leave our homes. We have heard that Byzantine blood is the tastiest and we have come to drink it.”
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Posted on 18 March 2013. Tags: Citizen, french, Have, Legal, Like, Lived, Move, Never, There, Would
My situation: I am dual citizen of France and the US because my father is French and I was born in the the US. I speak extremely little French but am currently trying learn as much as I can. I am married with two small children ages 2 and 3 and my husband is a US citizen only and does not speak French but is currently trying to learn. He works in the Electro – Maintenance Field and I am currently a stay at home mom. We would like to move within the next year so that our children will still be young enough to pick up the language naturally and have a relatively easy transition into the French school system. The French culture and way of thinking has always appealed to me and I have always dreamed of one day moving to France to reconnect with my French heritage and pass it along to my children. I feel it will give my kids a broader prospective on the world and the gift of being bilingualism. I wished I would have learned French as a child and both my husband and I want our children to have as many opportunities in life as we can give them. We want to stay at least a couple of years but our open to the possibility to staying very long term… we are keeping an open mind.
What I do know: My children are entitled to French citizenship through me. My husband is legally able to obtain a work visa because of my status as a French citizen.
What I’d like advice about: I have done some internet digging on expat blog sites but everyone talks about the difficulty in finding work and obtaining work visas for non french citizens… I realize it will not be easy for us to find work but does anyone out there have a similar situation to ours. That is, we already have legal status to work. Our main hurdle I’m sure is our very limited knowledge of French, but I’m trying to find out some loophole I guess. Does anyone know of a niche where we might be able to get decent work while building our knowledge of French after we move there. For an American or English company with offices in France… possibly??? If you can point us in the right direction we would appreciate it. Also, ideally we would like for one of us to find work before we move. Is this realistic? What area of France should we aim for?
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Posted on 14 November 2011. Tags: Advocate, Always, Mention, Never, Republicans, That, They, Torture, Waterboarding, When
extreme forms of torture. Torture is a progressive act. What starts with water-boarding will lead to other methods.
B Question: for Conservatives – which of the following methods do you feel are acceptable for extracting information from suspects: (Keep in mind these methods may also be applied to White Christian Americans who are affiliated with Right Wing Ultra-Nationalist groups or the Tea Party)
1. Flaying and cauterization: slits are cut in the skin, then large patches of skin are peeled off with a pliers. Wounds are cauterized with a blow-torch to prevent the victim from bleeding out.
2. Genital mutilation – removal: The victims genitals are tied tightly with a cord – constricting blood supply and causing the genitals to eventually necrotize and fall off. Antibiotics are used to prevent infection from causing gangrene and death.
3. Family and child rape: The torture victim is bound to a chair so they cannot move. The victim’s spouse and/or children are gang-raped in front of the person being tortured. After the gang-rapes are completed the spouse and children are sometimes beaten to death and their corpses mutilated.
Live by the gun, die by the gun. Violence always leads to greater violence. Anyone who claims there is a line that they’ll never cross is a liar.
These tactics have all been used by fringe rebel groups in third world nations – including some Ultra-Right Christian Groups like the Lord’s Resistance Army in Uganda. Of methods 1 through 3 which ones are acceptable to a modern Republican?
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