Posted on 07 November 2012. Tags: 5 months, business, Co-signs, full time, Home, house, parent, parent co, part time job, personal friend, professional business, rant, roommates, time position, twit
Like I said above I am 17. My boyfriend (who is 23) and I have been living together for about 5 months with his friend as roommates. The thing is that the owner of the home is a personal friend and not affiliated with a professional business, it is her personal house she just lives somewhere else so I am not on the lease here. We are looking to move out into our own place and I was wondering if I can be on the lease considering that I am 17? Can a parent co-sign for me? Can I live there with him without being on the lease but still paying rent? Any additional info would be great.
And please don’t rant about how hard it is to live on your own and what not. I understand this obviously…I have been moved out of my parents house for 5 months. I have recently got a part time job and am looking for another full time position leaving me at about 55 hours a week.
Also I don’t need to hear it about how I am naive and he is too old for me, he’s just using me, ect. We work great together as a team, my parents like him and are ok with this. Nor is he taking advantage of me. I have been in a 3 year relationship full of abuse and been taken advantage of before and I did learn a lot from it. So please…before you go being an aarogant twit and think just because I am young I am ignorant to the world. Being as young as I am I’ve seen and been through quite a lot of enlightening experiences and still learning every day(:
Much appreciated
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Posted on 26 October 2012. Tags: chice, childhood dream, circus, coins, door, Girl, market, old lady, parent, Parents, rich lady, Somebody, three kids, tittle, Witch
What is the name of that movie where three kids don’t have parents and they go to some secret parent market. They each get coins to make a chice of parents. They each take turns in picking parents, I believe one choses circus parents, and the girl chooses some rich lady. Well at the end none of them work out, and I believe the old lady next door is a witch and she kind of helps them out. It looks like an 80’s movie but I was so young when I saw the movie. Can somebody please help me relive my childhood dream. Thanks
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Posted on 21 August 2012. Tags: 13 years, Background, background info, dad, daring, eyebrow hairs, legs, makeup, mom, parent, strict parents
I just posted a question explaining my strict parents.
Background info:
I am 13 years old this year (in march)
I am in 9th grade, because I skipped a grade.
I study really hard and try my very best to please my parents, even though they don’t appreciate it. (I don’t remember dad even saying i love you…).
My mom is the one who enforces all the rules that are affiliated with “teens” and it kinda pisses me off.
I’m not allowed to wear lip gloss. (sad, i know.)
I recieved crappy concealer only for my 8th grade picture (and im not allowed to wear it any other time)
My mom said i could wear makeup at 16 or 17.
But I know even then, she’ll start yelling at me.
I didn’t even bring makeup up to her and she randomly told me the rules…
I was thinking of asking her this upcoming marchwhen im 14, but I am absolutely TERRIFIED.
Should I ask in 2 years? (I get scared of my parents a lot.)
ALSO: can you help me ask her if i could tweeze little stray eyebrow hairs?
(I was super daring) and asked her last year but she gave me the scariest lecture I’ve ever had.
And she was mad about me shaving my legs…
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!
Sorry if this was too long.
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Posted on 04 August 2012. Tags: criminal record, date of birth, gang member, good neighborhood, guy, little bit, neighborhood, parent, police officer, police officers, Street, time one, truck, unmarked police car
About 5 years ago, when I was 15 years old, we used to live in a not-so-good neighborhood. Some guy that I went to school with used to live in that same neighborhood, he was about the same age as me. We didn’t talk a lot, just from time to time. One day, I am outside washing my parent’s truck and I see him coming down the street with a gang affiliated shirt. He sees me, so he stops to talk.
About 2 minutes after he arrives at my house, we see an unmarked police car turn the corner. I then tell him to take his shirt off or turn it inside out because the police officer was going to question him about it. He doesn’t listen and says that the officer won’t do anything. The officer drives up to us and calls him over. He talked to him for about 30 seconds, then he calls me over. The officer asks me what was up with my friends shirt. I tell the officer the same thing I told my friend, that I had told him to take it off because he was going to stop him and ask him about it. The officer then asks my age, If I was going to school, what school, then, he asks me for my name and date of birth.
Now what I am wondering and what I am a little bit worried about is, what did the officer do with my information? Did he simply do a search to see if I had a criminal record, or did he input me into the system as a gang member? If someone knows the answer, I appreciate your response, Thank you.
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Posted on 10 April 2012. Tags: bed, coffee table, cost of food, food power, food stamps, hoarding food, Home, honey buns, house, jewelry box, job, king sized bed, parent, part time job, part time jobs
My parent was fired from her job 7 years ago. She worked little part time jobs at pubs, used up her savings, and borrowed money from anyone she could to support herself for a few years before she was eventually evicted and had to move in with some friends. About a year ago she started having trouble with her friends because she wouldn’t/couldn’t get anything more than a part time job earning barely more than $3.50 per hour + tips and not being able to pay her share of the bills. She was kicked out about 4 months ago and since I would not allow my mother to be homeless she moved in with us. We paid nearly $600 to have her belongings moved to storage out here and have been paying $150 per month for storage, $70 for her car insurance, not to mention the cost of food, power, and water since our bills have gone up. We have been barely getting by since she moved in and can barely afford to put any groceries into the house. Lets put it this way, our dogs are eating better than we are. I tried to make things a little less comfortable for her to encourage her wanting to get out on her own but it backfired. I started to buy less groceries (not that we could really afford them anyways but) and buy a few things for my fiancee and I to eat for lunch that I knew she did not like and would not eat but to solve that problem she went out and got food stamps and while she is putting a little bit of food in the kitchen I’ve noticed wrappers for things like honey buns and things like that in the trash can or on the coffee table that I know we didn’t buy but there is no box in sight which leads me to believe she is hoarding food in her room! (I don’t know for a fact but I’m not going into that over stuffed room to save my life, you can barely walk through it! It’s not dirty like filled with week old garbage but its just a small bedroom that she has crammed to capacity with a king sized bed, 3 dressers, a jewelry box, 2 free standing closets and nightstands. But even with all that furniture she has baskets stacked with laundry and cardboard boxes stacked on half of her bed filled with junk like books and magazines and pure crap. Seriously I didn’t think you could even fit that much stuff into this little bed room but I am beginning to think she is a hoarder.)
Since she moved in we have noticed things moving around, are being told how and when to do things, food vanishing much faster than it should be, the constant bickering that I should have bought this brand of soda because it is $.03 cheaper even though it tastes like a dog’s backside and mostly the lack of privacy for example when I left for work today I closed my bedroom door but when I got home for lunch the door was open and I know my fiancee left at the same time as me and hasn’t been home since. I’ve lost access to my own computer and barely get to use my tv after work. I just want to run through the house screaming MINE MINE MINE like a child!!!
She used to do the dishes every day and help keep the house picked up but that is steadily declining as well. She hasn’t had a single interview in the 4 months that she has been here and I began to worry that she was not trying to find a job at all. The past few days I began looking at the history on my computer and it is littered with nothing but facebook and dating sites with a job posting here or there every week or so. This morning she left a craigslist job add on the browser but when I clicked back it goes directly to facebook.
My fiancee and I are getting married in a couple months and I recently got an offer to move into a company paid home but I can not take her with me nor do I want to! I told her about the offer and mentioned that when she gets a job I’d be willing to help her with her costs if she takes over the lease of the place we are in now until she is able to fully support herself since we are not able to move until she is working but she didn’t respond at all. She simply just shrugged her shoulders and began flipping channels on my tv.
My fiancee is at her wits end with this and I am at a loss. I have no idea what to do with this situation or how to deal with her moving my things about and acting like she owns the place. How can I get her off her butt and into a job?
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Posted on 20 February 2011. Tags: assigns, author, breach, california state law, claims actions, damages, law, liabilities, parent, representations, Someone, state, successors, undertakings, warranties
The Contract is under California state law
“The Author at all times shall indemnify, defend (with counsel acceptable to the Company) and hold harmless the Company, its parent, subsidiaries, and affiliates, and the employees, agents, successors, and assigns of each, from and against any and all claims, actions, damages, and losses, liabilities and expenses, including reasonable outside attorneys’ fees, arising out of or caused by any breach of any of the representations, warranties, undertakings, or agreements made by the Author hereunder.”
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