Posted on 14 November 2012. Tags: answering questions, bullies, Cook, cooking meals, dad, daughter, dorms, life hell, little brother, pushover, saturday evening, text, those guys, veracity
So, last year I was friends with some pretty mean people. The kind of people that would pretend to be my friend so I’d write their assignments for them and cook for them, etc (I know, I’m a pushover). They kind of grew to hate me for answering questions in lectures and soon enough I started getting anonymous text messages telling me to kill myself again and how my dead dad was ashamed to have a daughter like me…yeah it wasn’t pretty. I became really depressed and stopped hanging out with them, except their harassment never quite stopped, in fact I ended up being unable to socialize with most people because when I did, the bullies would go and ‘hang out’ with those people. I’ve moved out of dorms now and live with some pretty cool people, none of which are in my course. Except this one guy, who I really cared about. He was like a cross between a puppy and a little brother, I completely trusted him as a friend, having him over practically every friday till saturday evening, cooking meals for us to eat together, watching movies until like 6am, you know. But the thing is, he hangs out with the people that harassed me. I’d told him before that I felt really uncomfortable by it, and he insisted it was just because of a study group. I even showed him all the messages and evidence I had, but I found it wasn’t his fault they were in the same uni activities, so didn’t say anything. Fast forward to today, when I go to his facebook wall to post a funny picture, I notice there are pictures of him…at a party with the very people that have been making my life hell for over a year now! I called him out on it, and all he basically said was that he didn’t think he was in the wrong and that he wasn’t going to take anyone’s sides. That he liked me just as much as he liked those guys, and then he went on to question the veracity of everything I’d told him. ‘Why would they do that?’ ‘I don’t think they’re the kind of people to treat anyone like that’, he said stuff like that, maintaining his innocence throughout….
Is it really that wrong for me to feel really hurt and betrayed by him? I’m so scared of these bullies, I haven’t gone to lectures in a month now and am back to my antidepressants, things that he knows perfectly well. I don’t even want him to confront those people, some of my other friends who don’t hang out with me as much as my ‘best friend’ wanted to teach the bullies a lesson, but confrontations scare me, so I told them repeatedly that all I wanted was to pretend the bullies dont exist and get on with things. Even when one of the people sat next to me and punched me under the table until I was bruised, I still just dealt with it by ignoring it.
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Posted on 16 April 2011. Tags: bbq, coldwater creek, Elegance, niche website, nuts, saturday evening, site, sophisticated side, spanx, Understated, unique jewelry, Website, wld, Women, young girls
i have forgotten the name of a website i really love. i discovered the site from a catalog i came across. the clothes were more on the sophisticated side but were also very understated and easy/breezy.the prices were a little on the high side but you cld tell that the clothes were very well made.
i am tempted to say the dresses were casual but they were not casual at all.that is how they felt on the models. they reminded me of what a girl wld wear on a breezy saturday evening in w/friends around the BBQ.
it is what a fashion conscious girl, who pays attention to what she wears but is also sure of herself and therefore does not get carried away, wld wear.
i think the site is a niche website. it would not suit very young girls. it is more suitable for women btwn say 27-35. it had everything from underwear to dresses and jewelry. the jewelry was my favorite section. it was very unique jewelry.
it even carried spanx.
coldwater creek and chico’s remind me of this brand but the one i am looking for has more options and is not as mature. it had that understated elegance but without being glitzy or cute. it also showed extensive options for spanx than you wld see on other women websites. please help me rediscover this site. the not remembering is driving me nuts!!!
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Posted on 16 April 2011. Tags: bbq, coldwater creek, Elegance, niche website, nuts, saturday evening, site, sophisticated side, spanx, Understated, unique jewelry, Website, wld, Women, young girls
i have forgotten the name of a website i really love. i discovered the site from a catalog i came across. the clothes were more on the sophisticated side but were also very understated and easy/breezy.the prices were a little on the high side but you cld tell that the clothes were very well made.
i am tempted to say the dresses were casual but they were not casual at all.that is how they felt on the models. they reminded me of what a girl wld wear on a breezy saturday evening in w/friends around the BBQ.
it is what a fashion conscious girl, who pays attention to what she wears but is also sure of herself and therefore does not get carried away, wld wear.
i think the site is a niche website. it would not suit very young girls. it is more suitable for women btwn say 27-35. it had everything from underwear to dresses and jewelry. the jewelry was my favorite section. it was very unique jewelry.
it even carried spanx.
coldwater creek and chico’s remind me of this brand but the one i am looking for has more options and is not as mature. it had that understated elegance but without being glitzy or cute. it also showed extensive options for spanx than you wld see on other women websites. please help me rediscover this site. the not remembering is driving me nuts!!!
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