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So I’m a 17 year old Turkish girl and it’s just that I get so many random compliments on the streets, markets etc. And not only boys, even old women and old men! Just coming up to me and telling me that my legs are beautiful I am beautiful or ask me where I am from… Even one said that I look like a Victoria’s Secret model! Everyone’s staring at me when I come into a place… What to do??

Okay, ever since i’ve been back on the market i’ve want to better myself to finally be the person i’ve wanted to be. I am very thin framed and short, and though I have been underweight by a few pounds for my BMI since high school it’s not because i’m annorexic!!! i’m far from that, and I think it stems from me having more fat and almost nonexistant muscle mass (since fat does weigh less than muscle). I’ve gained 10 pounds from a miscarriage which did put me at a healthy weight bmi finally, but it was 10 pounds of additional fat. I don’t want to look like i’m starving, I just want a very nice toned up appearance, I want to be musclar like a Victorias secret model, I just want to look healthy. Not starving, not like a weight lifter. I am currently 5’1″ and 103 pounds, and as I really don’t care what my weight is i’d like to just not see fat and actually be able to see slight definition in my stomach, my thighs or my arms. When I sit down not only do I have rolls but I have about 5″ inches of fat to my waistline. Since the beginning of this month I have started to go to the gym 6 days a week for mostly an hour, some days 4 hours. I do 10 minutes on the stair master at level 17, then I do some outer thigh, inner thigh sets. I do about 3-4 reps of 20 sometimes 30. Then I do 3 different kinds of abdominal toning machines 3-4 reps of 20. then 2 kinds of tricep machines 3 reps of 20. I do elipiticals for another 20 minutes. Then tredmill for 5 minutes. I sometimes do the bike too and hamstrings. I was eating normal the first week, then by the second week when I didnt see any difference and gained a pound (which could have been muscle but still no fat loss) I started calorie watching, To begin with it’s been hard for me to even consume 2000 calories a day, i’ve never had a problem gaining weight just a problem losing it and toning it up. I could eat fast food and crap all day and still not reach 2000 calories! But I did start eating healthier, cut fast food out and I consume around 1000 calories a day, mostly salads and protein and eggs. I also try to keep my carbs under 100 and continue to go to the gym almost daily. I still see no difference, my weight isn’t even changing anymore. I’m also a cocktail waitress, so I get plenty of exercise every night when I work from being on my feet for 8 hours a night with nonstop powerwalking while holding multiple heavy pitchers of beer. I don’t want to get super skinny and lose my *** and my C cup, I just want a more defined musclar appearance and want to get rid of my stomach, the flab on the back of my arm, and like a few pounds off my thighs which are beginning to get celulite. Overall there’s not alot of weight loss i’m looking at but it currently seems impossible to achieve it!!! What am I doing wrong? I’m almost about to buy trimspa to aid my diet and exercise but i’m afraid of how much weight I might lose with it. Can anyone correct my methods and also give me any advice to make my goals a reality?

I’m sorry. This is a snotty question to ask, but the lack of joy that accompanies any discussion of being a member of a believing community (in my case, Catholic) really sucks. Back when I was a kid, life really did revolve around the church community. It was not just sunday Mass: it was school and celebrations of minor feast days and music and art and scouts and little league and fish fries and … just a lot of fun and good life. It was energetic and rich, regardless of how well-off or poor we were economically. I’m watching all the network “Christmas”-related programming lately and to me it looks like popular culture is utterly clueless about why this holiday has such a name. It’s all just louder and flashier advertising so that it looks a little different from the loud, flashy advertising that now drones on all year long.
For the last several decades, both the fake-fundy republicans and poorly-selected clergy have mis-marketed Jesus as a mouthpiece for their own neuroses and agendas rather than permitting his ultimate instruction that we “love one another” to be heard…the message that gave rise to that warm and supportive community and all that fun.
Even if you can’t stand how boring, opinionated or out of touch your priest or minister is, just pay attention to the Word, and even if a lot of that seems incomprehensible, filter it through the lens of “love one another” and you’ll probably hear it right…and it probably does not have a whole heck of a lot to do with angel wings taped to the underfed shoulders of a Victoria’s Secret model. Give me a break.