Affiliate Marketing Secrets

I’ve talked with a few professionals who say that my constant changing of things in my life (ex. religion, sexual orientation, future plans) stems from my desire to have a community or a niche.
I realize now how accurate that is, but I’m unsure of where to go from here.
I crave to belong to something so I can’t tell what’s really what I want vs what my brain tells me I should do to belong to a group