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How To Ask An Asian Parent To Wear Makeup?


I just posted a question explaining my strict parents.
Background info:
I am 13 years old this year (in march)
I am in 9th grade, because I skipped a grade.
I study really hard and try my very best to please my parents, even though they don’t appreciate it. (I don’t remember dad even saying i love you…).
My mom is the one who enforces all the rules that are affiliated with “teens” and it kinda pisses me off.
I’m not allowed to wear lip gloss. (sad, i know.)
I recieved crappy concealer only for my 8th grade picture (and im not allowed to wear it any other time)
My mom said i could wear makeup at 16 or 17.
But I know even then, she’ll start yelling at me.
I didn’t even bring makeup up to her and she randomly told me the rules…
I was thinking of asking her this upcoming marchwhen im 14, but I am absolutely TERRIFIED.
Should I ask in 2 years? (I get scared of my parents a lot.)
ALSO: can you help me ask her if i could tweeze little stray eyebrow hairs?
(I was super daring) and asked her last year but she gave me the scariest lecture I’ve ever had.
And she was mad about me shaving my legs…
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!
Sorry if this was too long.

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My Mom Found An Empty Box Of Condoms What Should I Respond?


Me and my girlfriend we had sex about a month ago and was her first time doing it as well as mine. We have been going out for almost a year and i had an empty box of condoms on my bag which my mom happen to go through my bag (even though she taught me to respect other’s stuff) and she found the empty box of condoms. i was going to soccer practice and on the way out she told me “what was that box on your bag?” and i just pretended i didn’t hear her and walked away, however, after i left the house she yelled “i’m telling your dad” and that alarmed me. My problem with this is that my mom she treats me like i was 10 even though i’m 17 almost turning 18 and it really bugs me because i can’t drive because of her belief that “you’re going to crash onto another car” even though the streets i drive in are basically empty and i have driven for over 1 year now. Also i can’t go to places besides the park in front of my house because she thinks “you’re going to get shot” or “you’re to smoke weed with your gangster friends” even though our neighborhood is calm and i don’t smoke weed nor i have friends who are affiliated to any gang. On the other side i have my dad who is an open minded person. He talks the problems out contrary to my mom which she starts yelling and accusing people of being gang members or stuff like that. My dad will talk out the problem with me if she tells him about the box of condoms she found of my bag but my mom will basically start WW3 about that box of condoms. Also my girlfriends parents are the really strict parents and i understand that and that’s why i used the condom in the first place, making sure she didn’t get pregnant or get any disease. I don’t want her parents to know about this but if there is no solution then i will attach to the consequences. How can i talk about this to my parents if they asked me about it? any suggestions. My girlfriend told me that if my mom disapproves me using them, then she’s denying safety from us by not letting me use the condoms. I know it’s not right having sex at such a young age but me and her talked through it for a long while and we both agree to attach to the consequences. Basically my problem is that how to discuss this with my parents? any suggestions?

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Need Anser Fast, Here Is A Story, It’s Very Long, If You Have Time Please, If Don’t, Just Simply Ignore It?


This is pure friendship between two friends, don’t mis understand anything. I just want to know or guess about what really happened.
I made friend with someone I have a lot in common with.
– friendly
– sensitive
– shy
– smart
– quick thinker
– independent
– caring
– have a traditional family
– influence in chinese
– have strict parents
– he doesn’t get along with his dad while I’m not with my mom and for almost the same reason.
– like the same type of music and movies
– share secrets like masturbate and other personal things (most asian doesn’t do that.)
and a lot more…
Everything was fine for the past 2years, but it all changed when he begun to making new friends.
His new is fine, except that they sort of his followers which I’m not. My friend is better than me in Math, Physic, Chemistry but not because he smarter, it’s just he more determinate to study than me,and I’m lazy. that’s why when he calls every friend to open a study club, I decided not to go.
– I don’t like his friends.
– Even without his tutoring, I’m doing just fine with school work.
That’s when he begun to get really close to them. I don’t really mind though, he’s not my girlfriend, he’s not my boyfriend, there’s no reason that he can’t hang out with other people and I told him that in person.
I never really know really happened, all I know is that I hate his friends more and more because, they know that I’m very close to him, so in front of him, they treat me like a long time best friend, they just talk to me without making sense but when he’s not around, his friends are barely talk to me even when I ask them something, the way they look at me is like I’m some sort of a loser which I don’t understand because, I’m as rich as my best friend and we both richer than anyone in our class, maybe even in our whole school, and I’m good looking, smarter than any of them.
One day, I when to the suppermarket and saw my best friend hang out with his new friends, he saw me, which I saw him too. So I hurried home right away, I was angried at him, that’s because a moment ago, I called to ask him to goes with me to buy some new Movies but he said that he sick and had to stay at home but instead he went to the same market with his friend cohort. About 20 minutes later, he called, I know that he knows that I was angry, what he was talking on the phone doesn’t make any sense, it was school, it was this, that… i can’t really understand any of it but I know it’s because he know he did wrong and had nothing to say, he just saying other things, maybe he was just trying to detect if I was angry at him or not. Ever since then, I sort of distance myself from him, he called, I don’t pick up, sometime I do if I was close to the phone, but I never called back if there were his miscalled, I just told him that my phone is out of money. At school, the table, is for 2 person but can be use for 3, I sat with him and his other best friend from childhood, but lucky or not, someone was transfer to other class, I went to sit in that table, using an excuse as the table was empty. He realize that i was really angry at him and without knowing what to do, he called my dad and have my dad call to me to talk for him. I was really surprised at the time, he never know my dad, and he dare to call, wonder where he got my dad’s number? After than everything was fine again, that’s also when he knows that I really hate his friends.
Later, he had to goes to America to study, he throwing a going away party without invite me, when I found out, I kind of really stay far from him more by write an e-mail to him;
<>
He didn’t reply back, but e-mail that he had returned for a short visit and want to meet me, I said no to him. Now he comes back again for his birthday celebration, I ask who he was celebrated with, he said, it only his family members but before that, I called his brother and ask about this too and he said, he celebrated it with him and his other 3 best friend at home, so my friend lied to me again. But this time, he will visit me, and as speaking of it, it is tomorrow.
So what do you think? how should i behave? what should I do? What should I talk about?
Should I see him off this time??? Because of what

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Need Anser Fast, Here Is A Story, It’s Very Long, If You Have Time Please, If Don’t, Just Simply Ignore It?


This is pure friendship between two friends, don’t mis understand anything. I just want to know or guess about what really happened.
I made friend with someone I have a lot in common with.
– friendly
– sensitive
– shy
– smart
– quick thinker
– independent
– caring
– have a traditional family
– influence in chinese
– have strict parents
– he doesn’t get along with his dad while I’m not with my mom and for almost the same reason.
– like the same type of music and movies
– share secrets like masturbate and other personal things (most asian doesn’t do that.)
and a lot more…
Everything was fine for the past 2years, but it all changed when he begun to making new friends.
His new is fine, except that they sort of his followers which I’m not. My friend is better than me in Math, Physic, Chemistry but not because he smarter, it’s just he more determinate to study than me,and I’m lazy. that’s why when he calls every friend to open a study club, I decided not to go.
– I don’t like his friends.
– Even without his tutoring, I’m doing just fine with school work.
That’s when he begun to get really close to them. I don’t really mind though, he’s not my girlfriend, he’s not my boyfriend, there’s no reason that he can’t hang out with other people and I told him that in person.
I never really know really happened, all I know is that I hate his friends more and more because, they know that I’m very close to him, so in front of him, they treat me like a long time best friend, they just talk to me without making sense but when he’s not around, his friends are barely talk to me even when I ask them something, the way they look at me is like I’m some sort of a loser which I don’t understand because, I’m as rich as my best friend and we both richer than anyone in our class, maybe even in our whole school, and I’m good looking, smarter than any of them.
One day, I when to the suppermarket and saw my best friend hang out with his new friends, he saw me, which I saw him too. So I hurried home right away, I was angried at him, that’s because a moment ago, I called to ask him to goes with me to buy some new Movies but he said that he sick and had to stay at home but instead he went to the same market with his friend cohort. About 20 minutes later, he called, I know that he knows that I was angry, what he was talking on the phone doesn’t make any sense, it was school, it was this, that… i can’t really understand any of it but I know it’s because he know he did wrong and had nothing to say, he just saying other things, maybe he was just trying to detect if I was angry at him or not. Ever since then, I sort of distance myself from him, he called, I don’t pick up, sometime I do if I was close to the phone, but I never called back if there were his miscalled, I just told him that my phone is out of money. At school, the table, is for 2 person but can be use for 3, I sat with him and his other best friend from childhood, but lucky or not, someone was transfer to other class, I went to sit in that table, using an excuse as the table was empty. He realize that i was really angry at him and without knowing what to do, he called my dad and have my dad call to me to talk for him. I was really surprised at the time, he never know my dad, and he dare to call, wonder where he got my dad’s number? After than everything was fine again, that’s also when he knows that I really hate his friends.
Later, he had to goes to America to study, he throwing a going away party without invite me, when I found out, I kind of really stay far from him more by write an e-mail to him;
<>
He didn’t reply back, but e-mail that he had returned for a short visit and want to meet me, I said no to him. Now he comes back again for his birthday celebration, I ask who he was celebrated with, he said, it only his family members but before that, I called his brother and ask about this too and he said, he celebrated it with him and his other 3 best friend at home, so my friend lied to me again. But this time, he will visit me, and as speaking of it, it is tomorrow.
So what do you think? how should i behave? what should I do? What should I talk about?
Should I see him off this time??? Because of what

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Need Anser Fast, Here Is A Story, It’s Very Long, If You Have Time Please, If Don’t, Just Simply Ignore It?


This is pure friendship between two friends, don’t mis understand anything. I just want to know or guess about what really happened.
I made friend with someone I have a lot in common with.
– friendly
– sensitive
– shy
– smart
– quick thinker
– independent
– caring
– have a traditional family
– influence in chinese
– have strict parents
– he doesn’t get along with his dad while I’m not with my mom and for almost the same reason.
– like the same type of music and movies
– share secrets like masturbate and other personal things (most asian doesn’t do that.)
and a lot more…
Everything was fine for the past 2years, but it all changed when he begun to making new friends.
His new is fine, except that they sort of his followers which I’m not. My friend is better than me in Math, Physic, Chemistry but not because he smarter, it’s just he more determinate to study than me,and I’m lazy. that’s why when he calls every friend to open a study club, I decided not to go.
– I don’t like his friends.
– Even without his tutoring, I’m doing just fine with school work.
That’s when he begun to get really close to them. I don’t really mind though, he’s not my girlfriend, he’s not my boyfriend, there’s no reason that he can’t hang out with other people and I told him that in person.
I never really know really happened, all I know is that I hate his friends more and more because, they know that I’m very close to him, so in front of him, they treat me like a long time best friend, they just talk to me without making sense but when he’s not around, his friends are barely talk to me even when I ask them something, the way they look at me is like I’m some sort of a loser which I don’t understand because, I’m as rich as my best friend and we both richer than anyone in our class, maybe even in our whole school, and I’m good looking, smarter than any of them.
One day, I when to the suppermarket and saw my best friend hang out with his new friends, he saw me, which I saw him too. So I hurried home right away, I was angried at him, that’s because a moment ago, I called to ask him to goes with me to buy some new Movies but he said that he sick and had to stay at home but instead he went to the same market with his friend cohort. About 20 minutes later, he called, I know that he knows that I was angry, what he was talking on the phone doesn’t make any sense, it was school, it was this, that… i can’t really understand any of it but I know it’s because he know he did wrong and had nothing to say, he just saying other things, maybe he was just trying to detect if I was angry at him or not. Ever since then, I sort of distance myself from him, he called, I don’t pick up, sometime I do if I was close to the phone, but I never called back if there were his miscalled, I just told him that my phone is out of money. At school, the table, is for 2 person but can be use for 3, I sat with him and his other best friend from childhood, but lucky or not, someone was transfer to other class, I went to sit in that table, using an excuse as the table was empty. He realize that i was really angry at him and without knowing what to do, he called my dad and have my dad call to me to talk for him. I was really surprised at the time, he never know my dad, and he dare to call, wonder where he got my dad’s number? After than everything was fine again, that’s also when he knows that I really hate his friends.
Later, he had to goes to America to study, he throwing a going away party without invite me, when I found out, I kind of really stay far from him more by write an e-mail to him;
<>
He didn’t reply back, but e-mail that he had returned for a short visit and want to meet me, I said no to him. Now he comes back again for his birthday celebration, I ask who he was celebrated with, he said, it only his family members but before that, I called his brother and ask about this too and he said, he celebrated it with him and his other 3 best friend at home, so my friend lied to me again. But this time, he will visit me, and as speaking of it, it is tomorrow.
So what do you think? how should i behave? what should I do? What should I talk about?
Should I see him off this time??? Because of what

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Need Anser Fast, Here Is A Story, It’s Very Long, If You Have Time Please, If Don’t, Just Simply Ignore It?


This is pure friendship between two friends, don’t mis understand anything. I just want to know or guess about what really happened.
I made friend with someone I have a lot in common with.
– friendly
– sensitive
– shy
– smart
– quick thinker
– independent
– caring
– have a traditional family
– influence in chinese
– have strict parents
– he doesn’t get along with his dad while I’m not with my mom and for almost the same reason.
– like the same type of music and movies
– share secrets like masturbate and other personal things (most asian doesn’t do that.)
and a lot more…
Everything was fine for the past 2years, but it all changed when he begun to making new friends.
His new is fine, except that they sort of his followers which I’m not. My friend is better than me in Math, Physic, Chemistry but not because he smarter, it’s just he more determinate to study than me,and I’m lazy. that’s why when he calls every friend to open a study club, I decided not to go.
– I don’t like his friends.
– Even without his tutoring, I’m doing just fine with school work.
That’s when he begun to get really close to them. I don’t really mind though, he’s not my girlfriend, he’s not my boyfriend, there’s no reason that he can’t hang out with other people and I told him that in person.
I never really know really happened, all I know is that I hate his friends more and more because, they know that I’m very close to him, so in front of him, they treat me like a long time best friend, they just talk to me without making sense but when he’s not around, his friends are barely talk to me even when I ask them something, the way they look at me is like I’m some sort of a loser which I don’t understand because, I’m as rich as my best friend and we both richer than anyone in our class, maybe even in our whole school, and I’m good looking, smarter than any of them.
One day, I when to the suppermarket and saw my best friend hang out with his new friends, he saw me, which I saw him too. So I hurried home right away, I was angried at him, that’s because a moment ago, I called to ask him to goes with me to buy some new Movies but he said that he sick and had to stay at home but instead he went to the same market with his friend cohort. About 20 minutes later, he called, I know that he knows that I was angry, what he was talking on the phone doesn’t make any sense, it was school, it was this, that… i can’t really understand any of it but I know it’s because he know he did wrong and had nothing to say, he just saying other things, maybe he was just trying to detect if I was angry at him or not. Ever since then, I sort of distance myself from him, he called, I don’t pick up, sometime I do if I was close to the phone, but I never called back if there were his miscalled, I just told him that my phone is out of money. At school, the table, is for 2 person but can be use for 3, I sat with him and his other best friend from childhood, but lucky or not, someone was transfer to other class, I went to sit in that table, using an excuse as the table was empty. He realize that i was really angry at him and without knowing what to do, he called my dad and have my dad call to me to talk for him. I was really surprised at the time, he never know my dad, and he dare to call, wonder where he got my dad’s number? After than everything was fine again, that’s also when he knows that I really hate his friends.
Later, he had to goes to America to study, he throwing a going away party without invite me, when I found out, I kind of really stay far from him more by write an e-mail to him;
<>
He didn’t reply back, but e-mail that he had returned for a short visit and want to meet me, I said no to him. Now he comes back again for his birthday celebration, I ask who he was celebrated with, he said, it only his family members but before that, I called his brother and ask about this too and he said, he celebrated it with him and his other 3 best friend at home, so my friend lied to me again. But this time, he will visit me, and as speaking of it, it is tomorrow.
So what do you think? how should i behave? what should I do? What should I talk about?
Should I see him off this time??? Because of what

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