Posted on 30 January 2011. Tags: Australia., call, gay male, guy, hottest guy, intention, kicker, little bit, lol, person, relationship, relationships, text, these girls, two minutes
Gay male in my early 20’s here. A few weeks ago, I met this guy. At first I never would’ve considered getting involved with him cause he lives nearly 2 hours away but we have so much in common, more than probably with anyone I’ve ever known. We started talking all day every day, and he made no secret of the fact that he really likes me and was falling for me. He’d keep telling me I’m the hottest guy he’s ever seen, I’m amazing, he’s never felt like this before. I thought it was really sweet, but at times, veered off into feeling a little bit too much like idolization (For example, I’m an actor and he watched a movie I was in and told me “You first come on screen two minutes and 42 seconds in”). Anyway though, we began seeing each other. He came here, then I went there, and we both kept saying how much we like each other. But here’s the kicker…he’s leaving for Australia next week and doesn’t come back until June! However, he’s kept talking about our plans for when he gets back and the summer and stuff – even mentioned us living together (yet we’ve never really talked about what we are, if we’re officially in a relationship or what)
So last night, we’re texting and he tells me loves me (which he hadn’t directly said before) and then tells me to check Facebook. He sent me a message, which I found VERY strange. It was saying about how he’s happy that he’s leaving because he’s crazy about me and he knows that if he were staying, he’d push me away because that’s what he does with people. He said that because he’s “always gotten screwed over” in his previous relationships, that’s all he knows (He’s only been out of the closet recently and has never been with a guy before. He’s only dated girls – all of whom he deceived into believing he was straight. So I find it a bit hard to swallow that he supposedly got so screwed over by these girls). He then said that I shouldn’t wait for him (As if I had ANY intention of doing so) and said that while he’s away, he’s gonna be dating guys who he can make these mistakes with because they don’t mean as much to him as I do and said that when he gets back, he’s gonna call “the only person he’s ever loved” and that I should expect that call.
This message bothered me a little – I didn’t like how he was whining about getting “screwed over” and pushing people away, I also didn’t like having to hear about all the guys he’s gonna hook up with – but I thought maybe I was being irrational and I’d let it go. Then he keeps texting me and asking if I got it. I said “I did. So am I really the only person you’ve ever loved? hehe ;)” He writes back saying “Psh yeah! I mean well, I haven’t been on the market long but still” …Not so much the answer I wanted to hear. His whole demeanor felt different. So I “jokingly” wrote back saying “Oh you’d probably say that to any guy who was here lol” So he writes back saying “Well I love everything I know about you and being with you. It’s too soon for I love you’s though now that I think about it [Um who’s the one person who said that though?! Not me!!]. I could be hooking up with lots of guys that are closer!” That was it, I was really mad! I didn’t respond and then like an hour later, I get another text saying “Lol, that may have been me impulsively pushing away”.
I felt like I had had it, so after a lot of thought, I sent back a text saying “And Matt, this is me doing the same.” So he immediately responded “How so?” but I didn’t know what to say, and it was like 3am so I just went to sleep. It’s annoying because I can’t even say in words how he’s gone on and on and on about how nuts he is over me. He said one night he was paranoid and binge drinking and freaking out cause I hadn’t immediately responded to a text of his (I was at work, it took me a few hours!), he said how he talks about me to everyone, his entire Facebook statuses and everything are always about me, there are nearly 2000 texts between us in my phone, etc etc etc. I’m just not sure what to do
Another is… I do like him. On paper, we’re perfect for each other. That said, I don’t know, maybe I’m crazy, maybe it’s just that I’m not used to it being easy, but….something’s missing. With the few guys I’ve previously really liked, I was SO certain. When we kissed, it felt like fireworks going off, I wanted to know everything about them, and be around them every second of every day. I do really like him and think I’d miss him terribly if we were to just stop talking. But I don’t have that fireworks feeling, yknow? He’s attractive but he’s not a good kisser and he smells like an old lady’s attic. Now I don’t know
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Posted on 17 January 2011. Tags: initial investigation, Investigation", market, market niche, niche, text
Im reading a text that says “a new market niche investigation”. So what is this “niche”? does it mean initial investigation? thorough investigation?
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Posted on 11 November 2010. Tags: credit score, current state, didnt, everything, interv, job, layover, misdameanor, online dating service, Opinons, second chances, single day, text, vp
I met a man on an online dating service. We appeared to have everything in common, a real connection until I explained that i had a gross misdameanor 14 yrs ago. I only told him this because of the job he had (law enforcement) and I didnt know if that was something that could affect him. Even though he told me that he was glad I was honest with him he did indicate that he could not affiliate with anyone whom had a past like that. I was CRUSHED! So we let it go. 2weeks later he calls me and stated that he missed me wanted to know how I was and that he put in a 2 week notice to his current job and is now working on the back end of the job where the provisions of his associations were not so harsh. He asked if I could give him another chance and that he couldnt find anyone else that connected like we did and that he was wrong. And so I did, believing that people deserve second chances. He has the 905 credit score, the BMW, the house and career and I have lousy credit that i am trying to redeem from now, a condo, a car. The reason for mentioning this was because his friends indicated to him (he told me) why was he messing with someone like me when he can get a lawyer, doctor etc. It hurt my feelings needless to say but he was adament that he didnt care what they thought and wanted to just do this with me. We talked every single day since then, so we have been talking all together for 2 1/2 mths give or take. Well, long story short he applied (supposingly) for a job in my current state so we could be closer and according to him, it paid sooo much more and was ready for a change etc. He landed an interview. He was supposed to be here Tuesday last week. He never called going to the airport, layover or arrival. So, i called him and he answered whispering that he was in an interview already getting ready to met the CEO and VP that he loved me and he’ll call me right after the interview. Now, I was told the previous day the interview was at 1:30pm but when I called it was 11:30am, the flight was supposed to be at 10:30am arrival, and he told me they wanted to interview early. Strange I thought. And then he says that the interview was going to last 7 hrs especially if they liked him!! Huh? i let it go thinking well i’ll met him soon enough and everything will be great! NOT! He never called not even the consideration of a phone call, text ….nothing. Wednesday came and I saw him on facebook accepting friend request. I left it alone. Thursday he finally called didnt leave a message and then text me to call him ( this was the day he was supposed to leave). I took off 3 days of work to be with him. Why do I need to call him? I have never heard from him since and its been a week already. He never removed me from facebook either. SHould I call? It’s killing me to know what’s up. Oh by the way, the hotel that he supposingly applied and stayed at….he was never registered and there was never a job opening for it. What was the purpose of that? LIAR!
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Posted on 23 September 2010. Tags: Advice, consequences, disintegration, DMTU, fulfillment, maltreatment, maximum number, native english speaker, problem, public transportation, service users, speaker, text, transportation market
Hi,
I am doing my essay and it is difficult for me because I am not a native English speaker. Please, help me checking my text, thanks:
“The non-fulfillment of rules represents a big problem to DMTU, which is pressured by operator enterprises for increasing the quantity of vehicles on routes. The purpose of these is “to better the business” (major number of affiliated units”. Some of the consequences for the bad services are the following:
– Permanent maltreatment to the public transportation passenger by providing a deficient service.
– Users of public transportation are waiting for a soon change in the service.
– The dominant situation in the transportation market has caused the disintegration of the real enterprises.
– Current operator enterprises have as a unique objective to obtain “the maximum number of affiliated units”. The quality of the service is displaced to a second or third level of priority.”
Anne
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Posted on 18 September 2010. Tags: animals, canopy, Determind, environment, figure, function, giraffe, naturalhistory, niche, od, organism, site, text, trees
In your text it should say. But a niche is the the function and organism has in it’s area.
An example is a giraffe’s niche is feeding on the canopy on trees. Just look at the animal and figure out what it mainly does in its environment.
This site should help you.
http://animals.about.com/od/naturalhistory/f/whatisaniche.htm
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Posted on 16 September 2010. Tags: amp, brand name, form, logo, right question, smiles, smiley face, text, Trademark, Work
Okay, a few questions here. First off, if someone has filed a trademark that I want and it is in abandoned and dead status.. for more than a year.. can I apply for ownership?? If not can I submit a similar trademark in my own work and be granted ownership of that one seeing as the original similar trademark is dead & abandoned?(I would prefer this option since I like my work better) Also, if I have a trademark containing text in the form of a domain can I argue for rights to the actual domain? Or does that just give me ownership of the manner in which I have the text displayed in my trademark? Finally, if I trademark a logo that I intend to use with my brand do I also have to trademark the brand? (for example: if my logo was a smiley face and I wanted to make my brand smiles) would I have to trademark the logo and the brand name smiles? Or would I submit the logo and somehow link it or affiliate it with a company name of smiles? Sorry if I didn’t present these questions clearly..sometimes it’s hard to ask the right question(s). I appreciate input from anyone with legitimate experience or knowledge on this matter!! 🙂
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