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How Do I Get Out Of Feeling That I’m Just Here For The Ride?


By no means am I contemplating suicide. I just want to clear that up before I begin.
I always feel as though I’m just in life for the ride, and maybe that’s the point of life, but I always feel like I’m just there, never really serving any particular purpose except to be a not-so-worthy competition to other people. I wouldn’t call myself gorgeous, but I wouldn’t call myself ugly, either, but my friends get all the attention from girls and boys, and I’m the one who sits in the corner and holds the drinks. I consider myself average-looking, and I’ve been told many times that I’m really nice, but people would only want to know me as a friend, and nothing more, which makes me believe that I have to be rude and reckless to get a boy to like me and acknowledge me.
I know my niche is writing, but whenever I try to be as best as I can be at writing, there’s always somebody there to cut me down like a tree, to make me feel like writing isn’t my niche, to make me question whether or not it’s what I’m destined to do. Maybe I try too hard to be number one — I always submit my pieces to writing competitions, like one at my school, for example, where I came out in the bottom of the barrel, losing the top prizes to people who don’t even like writing, while it’s the one thing I can see myself doing for the rest of my life.
I have never really won anything, either. I don’t really expect to win things, because I’m not a competitive person, but I always feel like I want to be recognized for my writing or for some other attributes I have, and I always strive to get something that I really, truly want, but there’s always somebody better than me, always someone who wants it more, always something standing in the way of being recognized or getting what I want. I tried out to be a peer leader at my school for my last year, and I lost the position to kids in my class who are, in my opinion, the worst role models, to people who get everything they want handed to them on a silver platter, to people who bullied me and my friends, to people who drink until they’re so drunk that they pass out or hook up — or worse — with anybody on whom they can get their hands.
Maybe I’m looking way too deep into this, but I always feel like whenever I want to be recognized, there’s something or someone standing in the way and inhibiting my drive to be recognized, and it hurts me. Sometimes, like in the case of peer leaders, I found myself so upset by the decision that I began listing reasons why I’d be a better peer leader than the twelve who were chosen, and I’m not the kind of person to list the bads in people. I try to see the good in people, and sometimes I just get so upset by them doing better than me that I tend to do this.
I’m seventeen, and I have my future ahead of me, and maybe what I’m feeling is a part of growing up, or maybe I’m just being self-absorbed and selfish, but this is all really bothering me. How can I get out of feeling this way? How do I get used to the fact that there will always be people better than me? Is this normal, or am I being selfish? If I’m being selfish, how can I get over this, because I hate feeling like I’m being selfish, but I don’t know whether or not I’m being selfish?
Does all this even make sense?
Thanks

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How Do I Get Out Of Feeling That I’m Just Here For The Ride?


By no means am I contemplating suicide. I just want to clear that up before I begin.
I always feel as though I’m just in life for the ride, and maybe that’s the point of life, but I always feel like I’m just there, never really serving any particular purpose except to be a not-so-worthy competition to other people. I wouldn’t call myself gorgeous, but I wouldn’t call myself ugly, either, but my friends get all the attention from girls and boys, and I’m the one who sits in the corner and holds the drinks. I consider myself average-looking, and I’ve been told many times that I’m really nice, but people would only want to know me as a friend, and nothing more, which makes me believe that I have to be rude and reckless to get a boy to like me and acknowledge me.
I know my niche is writing, but whenever I try to be as best as I can be at writing, there’s always somebody there to cut me down like a tree, to make me feel like writing isn’t my niche, to make me question whether or not it’s what I’m destined to do. Maybe I try too hard to be number one — I always submit my pieces to writing competitions, like one at my school, for example, where I came out in the bottom of the barrel, losing the top prizes to people who don’t even like writing, while it’s the one thing I can see myself doing for the rest of my life.
I have never really won anything, either. I don’t really expect to win things, because I’m not a competitive person, but I always feel like I want to be recognized for my writing or for some other attributes I have, and I always strive to get something that I really, truly want, but there’s always somebody better than me, always someone who wants it more, always something standing in the way of being recognized or getting what I want. I tried out to be a peer leader at my school for my last year, and I lost the position to kids in my class who are, in my opinion, the worst role models, to people who get everything they want handed to them on a silver platter, to people who bullied me and my friends, to people who drink until they’re so drunk that they pass out or hook up — or worse — with anybody on whom they can get their hands.
Maybe I’m looking way too deep into this, but I always feel like whenever I want to be recognized, there’s something or someone standing in the way and inhibiting my drive to be recognized, and it hurts me. Sometimes, like in the case of peer leaders, I found myself so upset by the decision that I began listing reasons why I’d be a better peer leader than the twelve who were chosen, and I’m not the kind of person to list the bads in people. I try to see the good in people, and sometimes I just get so upset by them doing better than me that I tend to do this.
I’m seventeen, and I have my future ahead of me, and maybe what I’m feeling is a part of growing up, or maybe I’m just being self-absorbed and selfish, but this is all really bothering me. How can I get out of feeling this way? How do I get used to the fact that there will always be people better than me? Is this normal, or am I being selfish? If I’m being selfish, how can I get over this, because I hate feeling like I’m being selfish, but I don’t know whether or not I’m being selfish?
Does all this even make sense?
Thanks

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Taylor Swift Fans…..?


okay so here is this awsome site where you can make your own taylor shop and actually make money off from it. check it out. here is my shop hopefully you like it let me know what you think and if you buy something. OH AND BY THE WAY THIS IS NOT A VIRUS OR SCAM ! http://www.taylorconnect.com/affiliate/a…

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Underground Hip Hop…when Does An Artist Cross The Line?


During my days as a teen a became engulfed in the underground culture. I adopted a more radical stance on the issue. In my mind, the underground was the last line of defense against the tentacles of the corporate world…and anyone who was affiliated with them (mtv,bet, snoop, jay z) was considered a yoyo/flip flopper. Now the way I went by choosing who I listened to music wise was based solely on my view of them being firly against the yoyo’s….hence, not associating with them in any way (highly disappointed with gang starr on their final album for having snoop on it). So, in your opinion, when does an underground hip hop
artist cross the line

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Quality? Article Submissions………..?


Hi
Although I am very new to this I can see one thing right from the start:
There does not exist an easy way to rank high on Google.
– It does come down to quality link building.
My question is regarding the word “quality”.
My plan is as follows:
If I were to post an article a day on 100+ article submission sites, would that help my website rank high on google?
or would the fact that
a) it is the same article being posted multiple times and
b) only a small subset of the article submission sites I plan to use are niched for my market
make this work pointless? or to some degree less useful?
is the rate: 1/day too much? or could I potentially produce more?
Thanks for reading through all that, I would greatly appreciate feedback on this,
Kind regards,

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Learn Affiliate Marketing – Explode Your Profits by Avoiding These 3 Common Mistake Marketers Make


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Affiliate marketing is a very effective way to earn money online. This is probably why you want to learn affiliate marketing. Right?

Affiliate programs are easy to join, they pay a regular commission, and they are easy to promote. You just get people to visit the main site and someone else actually closes the sale. Easy as pie. This is why many beginners and experienced marketers alike are rushing to join various programs.

Just like any business, affiliate marketing is filled with pitfalls and traps that can snare people new to it. In fact I’m going to share with you 3 HUGE mistakes I see affiliate marketers make. (A word of caution here: it isn’t just beginners who are guilty of these.)

These mistakes can cause you to miss hundreds, maybe even thousands, of dollars in sales each day. It is better to avoid making these mistakes than to end up regretting your lost profits.

1. Picking the Wrong Affiliate

Most people are very eager to begin earning money so they rush into making decisions. What happens is that a beginner will jump pick a bandwagon product. They pick products that are “hot” right now without ever considering if they are actually interested in the product.

Try to choose a product you are really interested in and would use yourself. If you are interested in something and feel passionately about it, you will find it easier to promote.

Take a few deep breathes and close the ClickBank window. Sit down and plan out what you want to do. If you don’t plan then you are planning to fail. (It’s an old adage, but still very true.)

Pick a product you like. Do some research about it to check if it is in demand. Then promote it as much as you can.

2. Signing Up For to Many Programs

I know this one is hard. I am guilty of it myself at times. I just get too excited about these products. Then I remember to take a deep breath and make a plan. I suggest you learn to do the same.

The problem is that affiliate programs are so easy to join that you are tempted to join dozens of them. You think that promoting dozens of products is the way to instant riches. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work like this in the real world.

While it is true that this is an easy way to get multiple streams of income, it almost never really works. By trying to promote too many offers, you can’t concentrate on each offer enough to make it profitable. It is always better to pick one product and create a successful campaign for it, before branching out.

You need to do this slowly. Don’t rush. The products will be around for a long time. And if one disappears ten more will take its place, I promise. Build your your business slowly, but profitably.

3. Never Using the Product Yourself

This one is huge. Your aim is to convince people to buy a product or use a service. In order to achieve this, you have to explain the product. How can you do this if you have never used it yourself?

By using the product you will know first off if it actually works. (You don’t want to promote something that doesn’t work do you?) Once you know it works, you will be able to recommend it wholeheartedly. Your customers will pick up on your excitement.

Being able to offer your own testimonial about the product or service will go a long way in convincing your customers to buy it.

Too many affiliate marketers make one or all of these mistakes. It ends up costing them big and they never even realize it. Don’t be like them. Now you know about these mistakes you can certainly avoid them.

Patience is key here. Take time to use the product. Research the demand to make sure people want it. Develop a plan of attack and follow it. Doing these steps will help you skyrocket your profits.

Want to learn 36 secret tips and tricks on how to be a super successful super affiliate? Jon Pitts has been successfully working online for several years now selling both his own products and affiliate products. He runs his own website at http://www.jbp-marketing.com.

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